NEVER, trust family & friend's reviews. If you have a kid, ask him he'll give you the most honest review lol
On a serious note, what do you mean by a normal job ? are you working in softwares or
Work on something small, dont aim big, I'd like to interview someone someday soon, and I'd like to hire someone who knows a lot of little things instead of one single thing where he spent half his adult hood. While the later is good but in a competitive market you need to diversify your skill sets. Am I making sense ?
I will first say, I always trust friends and family. If they can't tell you the truth then they aren't helping you at all, which is the main point. My brother interviews people for software development and looks at thousands of Resumes, he isn't go to not make mine good.
My normal job, is just an IT job, no coding, just mostly help desk and fix it stuff.
That is what I have been doing, just learning stuff little by little and trying to put something together.