i edited my post to be more helpful. but to raise your point. if your going to ask a technical question the "consumers" dont need to learn. then atleast realise your asking something that is beyond the scope of the consumer(user) level and thus requires you to need to understand the background details to ask a background question.
its like consumers dont need to know the secret ingredients of the green ink and paper of a bank note, to use it. but if you want to ask a specific question about how many secret ingredients the ink and paper should have to secure a $1m bank note, its usually best to know why it has secret ingredients, know why green misture was chosen and understand a bit of the printing process. otherwise without the background knowledge all you will need to say is "green" and "paper" as your security level requirement.
I enjoy reading your posts. Thanks.
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You need to be a little more helpful. Here is why.
What you seek is removal of a barrier. That barrier is being put up by techincal people who don't understand business.
The people that can resolve your problem are people who understand business but don't understand the technical details. This is how organisations work.
We need a hard fork to grow the user base. That's a smart thing to do. No one really disagrees with that. What they disagree with is the timing. Specifically let's leave it until we exhaust all other scaling options. That's both sensible and stupid. Leaving it until the system has scaled means millions more users who can fuck up a fork later on.
The risk of a hard fork is too great to risk doing it. That's a techincal argument which has immensely sound judgement behind it.
We want to increase the numbers of users and increase the numbers of nodes to increase decentralisation. Thats also a smart thing to do, which again has sound judgement behind it.
But the two issues are diametrically opposed.
You won't win the technical argument without a network split. The technical guys have pulled too far into their little bunkers and have reinforced their entrenched view.
So you have to make a commercial argument that makes sense to risk a hard fork now. I'd put all my energy into that.