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newbie
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March 07, 2018, 08:17:30 AM
Making friends is hard and making true friends is even way harder.
In my opinion to make friends by being true to ourselve first. Friend will come to us if they see that we a true, honest and trustworthy.
newbie
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March 07, 2018, 08:10:47 AM
The most important thing to be yourself, behave kindly and always be honest to friends ,, when a difficult or happy friend we should always be there, doing things that are positive for our future, most importantly we are always there when friends are sad and happy
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March 07, 2018, 02:43:06 AM
It is not about my looks here considering my girlfriend is the hottest girl at uni
But I just can't make friends and have been ignored in groups on several occasions on accounts of being boring
Need some help here. ( will be grateful )

You don't need to please anybody but what you could do is just be yourself and don't pretend to be someone that you're not. You don't need to overdo everything, I guess you have to find a common ground with someone or with the people you want to be friends with. And for sure in this life you'll meet people who are meant to be your friends. Don't close your doors and be friendly.
newbie
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March 07, 2018, 01:33:29 AM
Make good communication with people,and be kind, then people will be happy to be friends with you
newbie
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March 06, 2018, 11:08:48 PM
you need to find people that are similar to you. If you don't have a gasp of a multitude of topics, so that you can talk a lot of different thigs with people you will need to find persons with similar interests.
newbie
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March 06, 2018, 11:05:54 PM
which is important in talking fun and cool
always smile to others and be a good listener to other
keep yourself humble.when someone talk to you alwys have patient
to them or pleasant to them.
and most important always be true .
newbie
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March 06, 2018, 09:18:03 PM
which is important in talking fun and cool
newbie
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March 06, 2018, 08:18:52 PM
Finding true friends is very difficult and one shroud be blessed to have few.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:51:30 PM
Do something popular, such as running for office. You'll get enemies too though.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:24:01 PM
Friendship is tied by itself. If you have lots in common it occurs by itself, but if your interests don't match what you would not do friendship is not. Only very difficult to be just friends with a beautiful girl. You will necessarily have deeper feelings and it will interfere with the friendship.

Listen sincerely. When was the last time someone stared into your eyes, smiled, and asked how you were doing and "meant it" while doing it? A genuine listener is hard to find, especially nowadays when everyone's eyes are fixated on their phone. When someone speaks, give your attention to them. They will feel it and appreciate it.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:20:37 PM
It is not about my looks here considering my girlfriend is the hottest girl at uni
But I just can't make friends and have been ignored in groups on several occasions on accounts of being boring
Need some help here. ( will be grateful )

Know yourself. If you do not know yourself, no one will get to know you anyway. Begin the habit of spending time calmly each day to explore your own thoughts. The habit will also improve self-esteem. Try doing writing exercises and see what your responses reveal about your values
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:17:19 PM
You always need to remain yourself so that later there is no unpleasant exposure. We need to expand our horizons so that we can support the conversation on any topic.

keep a sincere attitude. Insincere people tend to smile too often, speak too loudly, and usually laugh to cover up their anxiety. To be a good friend, you have to get rid of insincerity. You can not keep friendship with insincerity because in the end your friends will see your true self, and most likely will feel betrayed.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:15:43 PM
Don't be unfriendly. Simple

Share life experiences. While you should not impose thoughts and feelings on others, you should not be too close. If you let others continue to talk without giving an opinion, chances are you to stay friends as small as people who talk too much. You do not have to tell your deepest and deepest secret to friends, especially when you're just starting to make friends and build trust. However, personal anecdotes are what unite people to one another. Sharing life experiences is the key to close friendship.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:13:58 PM
It is not about my looks here considering my girlfriend is the hottest girl at uni
But I just can't make friends and have been ignored in groups on several occasions on accounts of being boring
Need some help here. ( will be grateful )

improve the negative nature within.
resist the desire to boast. The behavior is arrogant and most people find it annoying. You will lose friends before you can become a friend. You must have a balance in making friends so you can celebrate each other's achievements, instead of competing.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:10:53 PM
As many have said before me, being genuine and true to yourself helps. However try to read someone and see how they act around you, small tips can go a long way in identifying what they feel comfortable with. Don't start conversations with over saturation or inappropriate topics; that'll sink you fast. Instead focus on asking them how they're day was and listening to them, people will tell you a lot about them if you let them and that'll open a door for conversation. Of course be aware that some people don't like talking about themselves and they may end up feeling worse off so try to read their confidence in that.

Be yourself.
Each person has a different character and character, there is a point where someone needs others because of his shortcomings and gives his strength to help others. If we continue to be someone else we think is good for others, then we just hurt ourselves and deceive others. Over time, people will be aware of the differences in our former nature with the present. That's what usually makes others lazy to hang out with us.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:07:32 PM
be urself and geniue

agree on this i mean by this what you can find are not the good ones but the real ones 😀

talking about other people's interests
people are more like and interested to talk about things related to him. One of them is the interest he had. If you know that the person you are talking to likes a political issue, get him to talk about the ongoing political situation. Show him that you are also interested in political issues by providing various responses. Encourage him to talk more about it, so as to generate a passion in them. The spirit to talk to us, and our desire to talk about things that interest him that will make him like us. He feels comfortable and comfortable with us.
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:06:03 PM
Smile and just be yourself..
newbie
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Merit: 0
March 05, 2018, 08:04:58 PM
It is not about my looks here considering my girlfriend is the hottest girl at uni
But I just can't make friends and have been ignored in groups on several occasions on accounts of being boring
Need some help here. ( will be grateful )

Make others feel important.
if we are only selfish, so unable to give attention and respect to others, we will fail. Feeling ourselves important and underestimating others is not a commendable attitude.
It will cause hatred against us. People will tend to stay away from us..
newbie
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March 05, 2018, 08:03:06 PM
Friendship is tied by itself. If you have lots in common it occurs by itself, but if your interests don't match what you would not do friendship is not. Only very difficult to be just friends with a beautiful girl. You will necessarily have deeper feelings and it will interfere with the friendship.

be a good listener
God created man with one mouth and two ears. This means we are asked to listen more than to speak. Be a good listener. People prefer good listeners to good speakers. Being a good listener is a skill and ability that is rare and difficult to have.
newbie
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Merit: 0
March 05, 2018, 08:00:48 PM
Friendship is tied by itself. If you have lots in common it occurs by itself, but if your interests don't match what you would not do friendship is not. Only very difficult to be just friends with a beautiful girl. You will necessarily have deeper feelings and it will interfere with the friendship.

smile,
with a smile to the person we meet, shows that we are happy to meet him. A sincere smile means that we're happy. And pleasure is one form of positive emotion that we can "transmit" to others. This pleasant condition allows us to interact better
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