Topic: How to move on If you still love him/her? Do you experience it? (Read 1180 times)
How to move on? Hang out with your friends like when you used to when you were single. Get back into your hobbies that you used to do when you were single, man up or woman up and do it even if sometimes it reminds you of your ex. Basically when moving on, you don't go to a rebound but actually work on rebuilding and bettering yourself
November 15, 2017, 03:20:53 PM
when I've broken up with my ex
I was as much as possible to avoid communicating with him and to find out so I could forget him slowly
I was as much as possible to avoid communicating with him and to find out so I could forget him slowly
November 14, 2017, 04:23:07 AM
Yes ! I'm always experiencing it but i can move on faster than anyone can. Because i don't want to be sad and feel embarassed in lovelife.
November 14, 2017, 02:17:36 AM
Nothing can keep you from a happier future than a lingering relationship wound. We’ve all been there: Experiencing good love gone bad is painful. It doesn’t really matter what the circumstances were, or who was right and who was wrong. The bottom line is that it hurts and that the pain is preventing you from moving forward.
November 11, 2017, 04:16:55 PM
It takes time..really, you can't rush it.......but....keep company with good friends and go out as much as possible...
In daytime...work as hard you can....it distract you from thingking it over.......believe me ......
In daytime...work as hard you can....it distract you from thingking it over.......believe me ......
November 11, 2017, 01:46:01 PM
look for activities that can make you forget it, and often hang out with your friends, with the support of friends maybe you can move on
November 01, 2017, 02:06:59 PM
How to move on? first you have to accept the fact that it is over. once you have accepted everything everything else will follow. Letting go of the person you love was not easy but we must also think that we cannot hold on into something for our own sake only we need to consider the feeling of you partner.
October 24, 2017, 03:33:29 PM
Thanks to all the advice that you post here. This is not only for me but also for those people who experience this kind of bad feelings. Learn from your experience as my friend says... God Bless
October 24, 2017, 03:25:23 PM
Very interesting to find that sort of advice here on BT 
I find it also very interesting to see that not so many people felt this could also be an advice for them.
I find it also very interesting to see that not so many people felt this could also be an advice for them.
October 24, 2017, 03:23:04 PM
Seems like lots of good advice here. Best advice I can give is no contact anymore.
But what if his/her ex contact first. hahaha... Its gonna be disaster on the "move-on" process. . . so hard
October 24, 2017, 11:21:55 AM
Seems like lots of good advice here. Best advice I can give is no contact anymore.
October 24, 2017, 11:11:21 AM
always the beginning is the hardest part.
Don't spend too much time or energy mourning what has happened. Don't over-react to your loss and take any sudden actions without time for careful contemplation. Don't spend a lot of time alone. Don't complain about what has happened, and don't listen to your friends' complaints.
So what will help you move on and let go? Try these tips...
Keep busy with enjoyable activities. Have positive conversations with your friends and family. Be of service to those who are less fortunate than yourself. Get inspirational support daily... read an inspirational book or quotations, meditate, do yoga or Qigong, perhaps light a candle and contemplate positive thoughts, or begin the habit of daily journal. life can be joyful and rewarding again.
Don't spend too much time or energy mourning what has happened. Don't over-react to your loss and take any sudden actions without time for careful contemplation. Don't spend a lot of time alone. Don't complain about what has happened, and don't listen to your friends' complaints.
So what will help you move on and let go? Try these tips...
Keep busy with enjoyable activities. Have positive conversations with your friends and family. Be of service to those who are less fortunate than yourself. Get inspirational support daily... read an inspirational book or quotations, meditate, do yoga or Qigong, perhaps light a candle and contemplate positive thoughts, or begin the habit of daily journal. life can be joyful and rewarding again.
October 24, 2017, 08:13:40 AM
Time is the only thing that can cure that kind of pain. Other than that, just try and keep yourself as busy as possible. Don't give your imagination time to do it's work on you.
October 22, 2017, 01:14:24 PM
hello my friend i think we have all experience that you just have to move on fetch real love it exist dont worry.
October 22, 2017, 01:09:20 PM
Still on process and its so hard dude. Can you advice me?
I also experienced the pain because of love in many times and yes it's really hurts, it's hard to move on but you must understand, accept the fact that he's not really for you. Prove him that you can be happy even when he's gone. Go with your friends and try not to think about her/him. October 22, 2017, 10:44:22 AM
You have just to wait that time passes and that you become someone else who doesn't love Her/him any more.
(I've put Him before Her because usually I've noticed that the men's love has a longer inertia and it's more difficult to delete it)
(I've put Him before Her because usually I've noticed that the men's love has a longer inertia and it's more difficult to delete it)
October 21, 2017, 04:49:15 PM
That was the most difficult experience in my life. I didn't know what to do to move on.
I guess that time and staying close to your people helps.
I guess that time and staying close to your people helps.
October 21, 2017, 03:51:20 PM
I think sometimes in life you can't really move on, but you just have to approach each day as it comes, for often you will have been so in love with someone at a time that everything seemed right, but things change and time moves on. I would love to go back in time to a period with an ex but that was many years ago now and I'm sure we both have changed a lot since.
October 21, 2017, 03:34:07 PM
Hello,
Sometimes i remember those moments when i sit on computer and my wife comes sit on my lap and hugging me "I am your "bunny girl"? Do you love me?"
Ten years is long time, she have his own life and i got my own.
Sometimes i remember those moments when i sit on computer and my wife comes sit on my lap and hugging me "I am your "bunny girl"? Do you love me?"
Ten years is long time, she have his own life and i got my own.
October 21, 2017, 12:40:09 AM
Still on process and its so hard dude. Can you advice me?
I never experienced it, but if I experience it, I will seduce, and love him a surprise until it gets his heart.Jump to: