Topic: How will you feel if it happens to you just like this? - page 9. (Read 2840 times)

its not something that will be easy to forget especially when its fresh. i will keep thinking and imagining the kind of life i would be living if i have the money and that would have made it more painful. but as usual time heals everything. as time passes it will fade away and sometimes it will just be a flashy memories for me and something i would talk about how i missed out on such a big opportunity.

Actually, it's not just control but how he understands gambling and why he gambles, like a gambler who comes to entertain himself or comes for pleasure.
Maybe self-control is not one of the problem points but the understanding that they think about gambling if they think about doubling they will continue to come every day no matter whether the money is for daily needs they think about doubling the money but gamblers who have their positive understanding will only gamble when he has more money and will not force himself to gamble.
So self-control supports understanding about gambling because if you only control it without having a positive understanding, I think self-control can be destroyed by emotions.

A wise gambler can allocate his money well between money for gambling and his living needs. He will have no trouble managing his finances so he can still gamble. However, many gamblers still use their money to gamble without thinking about meeting their living needs. Gamblers need good self-control to manage their gambling and needs so that nothing will be disturbed and everything can run smoothly. And as long as the gambler can prevent greed or chase his win, he will be fine because there is no point in chasing a win, let alone the risk of losing in chasing that win. And I agree with being able to be satisfied with the wins we get rather than chasing those wins.

Regret or disappointment over losing is actually not a matter of real gamblers or professional gamblers but depends on how he has the goal of gambling and how much money he lost because even though he is a true gambler with a lot of experience when he experiences consecutive losses with large nominal amounts there will definitely be a feeling of regret and there are only a few gamblers who are able to accept every loss or mistake that may occur.
This is a natural attitude that every human being has and no one can really avoid it.

Understanding the mistakes and risks of gambling will usually be forgotten when gamblers get the chance to win big and every gambler cannot think properly when faced with a chance to win that might change his life.
Things like this are not entirely the gambler fault because greed and the desire to get bigger will usually always appear and be suffered by everyone without exception and those who can avoid greed are those who can control themselves and have clear thinking.

Not if the gambler has been responsible since the day they started gambling. A person regrets a decision that they made which caused them something valuable, in gambling, it's money obviously, but if you have been gambling responsibly since the beginning and never lost a very large amount in gambling and has always been in your limit regarding your time and money that you've used in gambling, you will barely have anything to be regretful about.

I know and understand that most gamblers must have experienced significant losses at some point during their gambling career, but there will surely be some people who are free from this and they have never wagered more than they could afford to lose and then regretted it when they've lost it all.

To be honest, some gamblers can exercise self-control especially when they win huge money. These gamblers understand how gambling works. Gambling doesn't necessarily require setting specific goals because if you do, you might end up chasing them aggressively which can lead to draining your funds on an unlucky day.

Gambling is for the players that take good opportunities and cashing out promptly without hesitation. To succeed, it's important to not be greedy and resist the urge to continue playing even after a win. Instead, it's better to be content with your winnings rather than constantly striving for more.

Regrets are like a normal thing in gambling. Most times we don't regret it while betting on the game, but we regret it when we don't win the game. I have experienced it multiple times, but this was my first regret.

Without regret, gambling will not be more active, people will lose and people will gain from gambling and people will also regret their actions towards gambling, but gambling remains the same. It is only for the casino to have a good reputation. That's all the total number of 20 people regretting that gambling can not close a casino unless the government included, but still people will find their way to gamble.

I will never incovinient myself because I want to test my skills, test this and that is what brings one to debt and in the process of making back the money to pay back the debt might lead to addiction. Whenever you have games analyse and you don't have the means to wager on such games, its better to live it that way and watchout for the result, if it comes as you predicted, test it again the next time to see the consistency in you game but I doubt if you will make the same faith again, you may likely lose the second time, that's gambling.

It is when you want to test your skills with money that gamblers lose money in betting because of the emotion that is involve but practice makes perfect and the only way to practice is testing skills, moreover gambling don't have testing phase, I think living out money is the best time to see if you are good by skills without money or not, you will even go far when you don't involve money in testing skills.

I think gambling can be relative to trading and doing practice is not bad, if I set up a trade and it went as I predicted in paper trading, the result will not upset me because I understand that during the course of practice, I can lose and win which is 50:50, the same thing applicable to gambling, there is nothing that will make me happy if I decide to practice gambling as the season progress or test casino games to practice my skills, it gives confidence especially making tough decisions in areas that might be difficult when money is involve.

I'm sure it's very difficult. if we only have some money then want to gamble completely. So how do we buy the necessities for our lives or our families? then when using it with a 50% win ratio what if it loses? even if it wins are we sure not to come back to play? I'm sure many of us want to continue playing after winning. Even I myself have not found a big win and then stopped.

The thing is that, a gambler is already set for whatever may come along the line for him because be it loses or winning whatever it is, he should already have an arrangement to bear them and not let them get to you too much, the easiest way to get free from such loses pressure is by gambling with an amount that you can afford to lose at once and still be comfortable and never be tempted to make any extra deposits if your loses exhaust  your set balance, we have to learn to move on at whatever point.

It really depends on the person and does not apply to those who are introverts. And not many people are introverts because out of 10 people perhaps only 1 person is an introvert. They really prefer to be alone when doing everything, including perhaps gambling, because it makes them feel calmer and can enjoy their time. Playing with friends is really fun because you can spend time together.

Of course, if we play with friends, we will have more fun because we can play together. And that can make us really appreciate the friendships we have built for a long time so that we will care about each other.

Indeed, for sure every gambler already suffer from this, regretting the outcome after playing as instead of stopping they push for more and the outcome is not on their favor, we need to cope up though and just move forward as there's nothing that you can do if you already failed when you play from that specific session. If you want to continue, just make a fresh start and focus on what you want to achieved, there's always positive and negative and you need to balance everything and be wise with how you take your way when you are into this activity.

In fact, regret is a natural condition that can happen to anyone, where someone regrets something or something afterwards. In gambling, we often experience this condition where at this stage someone regrets their actions. in the OP's case, he regrets risking all his winnings. The reason is, what he predicted did not match his expectations. Psychologically, this condition is very understandable and can happen to everyone, especially in cases of gambling.

However, what you say is actually not wrong. a gambler should know every risk he will take. There are only two choices, win or lose. it's just that in a position when we lose, our emotions of joy will quickly change to emotions of anger. It's natural to happen, even though we actually know all the risks of what we're risking. Usually, it is at this point where the gambler wants to make another deposit. the feeling of pleasure turns into anger, ultimately wanting to recover all the losses. Well, in this phase our understanding and self-control will be involved and tested.

For veteran gamblers, this situation can be very understandable even though there is resentment within themselves over their losses. However, for novice gamblers, this condition usually triggers a strong urge to carry out another gambling session under the pretext of recovering losses. So, for me this comes back to ourselves personally. If gambling is not fun, what's more, the situation is that we are overcome by the anger of defeat. Try to calm yourself down and think more rationally. stop, and come back another day when we are in a healthy state of mind.

Regret is a horrible feeling, but at the end of the day there will be times where a gambler will have to go through it at some point.

It seems to be something inevitable in casinos.

Regret is always there. Even if you regret after you lose in gambling, it doesn't mean that you are not a true gambler. Regret comes from the people who really hope to win, like hoping to win a jackpot once in a while to be used on their needs. The feeling of regret must be coming from thoughts that the money should be spent in a different way instead of losing it in gambling.

If a gambler regrets his losses, it means he doesn't really understand the risks of gambling, because only a true gambler never regrets his losses because he knows that there is always a risk of losing in gambling, so for him losing money is not something to be regretted, nor is getting money from winning something. which must be expected too, because there is no point regretting something that has been lost.

Many people don't understand how to gamble properly, sometimes most of them still like to be greedy in betting, they always bet big money but in reality they never get the slightest win, that's why never gamble if you don't understand every risk because if you understand it then there will be no regrets when gamble even if you lose. just think of gambling for fun 

I think it depends on the person. Especially if you are an introvert, you prefer to play alone and focus on gambling all the time. But yes, in my experience, it's really joyful when playing with friends as you can help each other in different ways to win and even if you lose.

It is more like you think that certain strangers might judge you the way you gamble. Unlike if you play with your friends, you can be really comfortable playing with them and do different ways or new other ways with your gambling. You can also start new games with them.

When playing gambling with friends, we will feel true joy because there will be a winner among us or we will experience defeat together. It will be a moment that will not be forgotten even when we are older, and we will continue to talk about it when we get together again. We won't get that pleasure when we only gamble alone, and perhaps we won't be able to limit ourselves as well as we can when alone. By having friends play with us, it will be an experience and fun that we will get.

Playing with friends and strangers is different because we won't be able to feel the same fun when we play with friends. If we play with strangers, we only think about showing our best abilities, and perhaps we won't experience complete enjoyment. But when we play with friends, we will get complete pleasure because only with them can we enjoy the game more. And even if we lose, it won't feel like it because some will cheer us on, and we might also be the winner while one of them will lose.

That's right, friend, playing gambling with friends will certainly add to your own joy, how can we not when we are feeling sad or bored to fill our free time, maybe by keeping ourselves busy, hanging out with friends while gambling a lot. interesting and fun, right? Yes, even if it's just entertainment by placing a small bet there, it certainly won't have an effect on someone becoming an addict. And conversely, gambling with friends will build better relationships provided that you gamble only for fun and always remind each other to remain disciplined in controlling yourself when gambling.

Well to be honest everything is more fun and entertaining when you do something with your friends, that is why they are your friends, and gambling is not an exception to this.

After all when I play poker with strangers I am only interested in playing to the best of my capabilities and trying to figure out how they like to play, but when I play poker with my friends that is not the focus anymore and instead I am way more interested in having the best possible time I can.