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Topic: I am an introvert - page 4. (Read 490 times)

newbie
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May 04, 2018, 11:02:23 PM
#6
If you have/make a hobby, you can socialize with it. Being in a band or doing a team exercise will provide you chances to communicate with others; since you and the peers have the same interest, it will be easier to talk. For example, I often talk and hang out with teammates from my BJJ gym. We mostly talk about BJJ, but in time we have become good friends who sincerely care about each other.

Hope you find good friends soon and enjoy the social life as you wish, mate.
I often play with my friends, I have 3 very intimate friends. I find it difficult to find other friends, I really want to be familiar with many people, but I do not know how.
newbie
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May 04, 2018, 03:37:56 AM
#5
Find a group with common interests. Groups or events such as a book club, cooking courses or lectures on certain topics are great places to meet people. The participants of this event are good for the conversation and you at least have one common interest that can be discussed. More than this, it will give you the opportunity to start a real conversation, and not to talk about "about anything" that most introverts do not like.
newbie
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May 04, 2018, 03:23:02 AM
#4
Well. There is 2 choices.
1. You keep being an introvert and try to find the good things in that. I`m an introvert too and I find it easy to concentrate on work, for example. Thats why I`m being way more productive and don`t waste my time on little chats with someone. There is tons of benefits in this behavior. Just google them Smiley
2. You try to get away from your comfort zone and interact with the society. And by that I mean REALLY get away from it. You will need to force yourself to talk to people, to have some public speeches and other stuff. In the beginning it will feel like hell, but later on you will feel yourself way more comfortable.

Its up to you to change your life dude
It seems that now I am in a neutral position, I am uncomfortable to be in those 2 things. But sometimes I also feel comfortable in both of these things, just depending on my mood.
newbie
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May 03, 2018, 03:38:13 AM
#3
If you have/make a hobby, you can socialize with it. Being in a band or doing a team exercise will provide you chances to communicate with others; since you and the peers have the same interest, it will be easier to talk. For example, I often talk and hang out with teammates from my BJJ gym. We mostly talk about BJJ, but in time we have become good friends who sincerely care about each other.

Hope you find good friends soon and enjoy the social life as you wish, mate.
newbie
Activity: 77
Merit: 0
May 03, 2018, 03:26:38 AM
#2
Well. There is 2 choices.
1. You keep being an introvert and try to find the good things in that. I`m an introvert too and I find it easy to concentrate on work, for example. Thats why I`m being way more productive and don`t waste my time on little chats with someone. There is tons of benefits in this behavior. Just google them Smiley
2. You try to get away from your comfort zone and interact with the society. And by that I mean REALLY get away from it. You will need to force yourself to talk to people, to have some public speeches and other stuff. In the beginning it will feel like hell, but later on you will feel yourself way more comfortable.

Its up to you to change your life dude
newbie
Activity: 154
Merit: 0
May 03, 2018, 12:44:49 AM
#1
I am a loner, and rarely socialize, but I am actually uncomfortable with this situation, I am eager to be like someone else who is extrovert, but I find it hard to turn myself into extroverts.
Now what should I do?
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