Topic: If you loose your funds don't loose the fun - page 2. (Read 1750 times)

who is happy when they lose money in gambling? honestly i get very annoyed when i lose money in gambling, i am not just playing because i want to have fun, i gamble because if i win i will use the profit to buy something or to trade or something else. It wouldn't make sense to spend hours analyzing a game just for fun and then lose money and be happy, that would be crazy, I'm sorry but it's my opinion

What a sad story, my friend. It's a mix of disaster and loneliness.
I believe OP didn't think it was funny to lose hid funds. He is just trying to overcome his loss emotionally, so he won't suffer anymore for this bad move he made, gambling with more money he could lose. And in order to assist him to do that, he had to summon his imaginary friend from the childhood times to give him some piece of comforting advice.

With some responsability next time, I'm sure he will be able to avoid a similar situation when gambling. Respect your budget/bankroll limits is the most important lesson to be learned here.

You need to be able to play or take risks and be prepared for the fact that you will lose everything. Many people in this world take risks, both emotionally and with a cool head. Any casino or anything related to a casino will always beat you, so think carefully before playing.

Fun and money both are needed to remain happy. If you lose money in gambling, it's difficult to believe that you will remain happy. The reality is that fun is linked with your funds.
There are very few gamblers who do not mind losing money and those are the ones who are very rich.

I think it will be difficult to still be able to feel fun when you lose, especially if you lose money more than what you can afford.
Luckily you have a friend who can calm down the chaotic feelings that you are being experienced, hopefully your best friend will advise you to only use money that is not used for daily needs and also to be able to control yourself so can't being in gambling addiction

Dont know how it is possible not to lose fun, when every loss is a disappointment. When you gamble, you expect to win and not just spend time clicking roll or spin. Besides, if you work hard (or at least do something to get money) and lose, how can you keep smiling after? For me, money dont come easy and fall from the sky. Losing in gambling is not a disaster, but with every lose I feel bad inside.

It's really very risky to gamble all out. Risking everything that you have is not really a good move. You should only risk what you can afford to lose and this applies to almost everything. Once you want to enter something, you should do your own research to avoid regrets and losses. After researching, you should know how to manage risks and do risk assessment the moment you already made up your mind that you will enter and dive into it. Because once you go all-in, you will really feel the devastation once you lose your bet all at once. It will be frustrating most especially if you staked everything that you have and left nothing for your future self to use.

The moment you lose everything will be the moment for some to wake up and come back to their senses. It's really saddening that some people really have to experience the worst before taking notes of the steps needed, when in fact it could have been prevented if they weren't so stubborn. But I guess that's life and we just really have our own ways in life.

But also please do remember that not all the time there will be someone to comfort you during your darkest days. Sometimes you'll just be left all alone, with no shoulder to cry or lean on and that's the reality. I agree that you have to be stronger and should bounce back and recover despite the losses. However, I disagree big time that you should forget the losses just because winning is sweet. No, that shouldn't be the case. You should remember your losses and take them as a learning experience in your life so that you won't be able to make the same mistakes again in the future. You don't have to sulk and take your failure to the heart, but you have to carry the lesson that situation has taught you. Eventually, you will come back stronger and wiser than ever and I think that is the beauty despite the failure. Just remember the next time around the values from your previous worst scenarios and use it to your advantage.

I understand your idea of meeting friends and playing poker, but that the meaning of little money in poker is always dangerous, playing $ 1/2 games with a friend may be thought to be little but the reality is that in the long term you can end up losing large sums, especially if you play the NLH variant.

"Luck-based" have you forgotten that some are skilled based or is it that you have know idea that skilled based gambling exist. We all know that wining all the time is not all that possible but as human being none of us will be optimistic or be having a mind that you are going to lose but we all have a mind the we will win while playing gambling and is just that truth.

It's probably because it's not the "losing" factor part, rather what you should mind is the process of the game itself. Yes, losing isn't fun but it isn't everything when you actually consider how games work. Though what I'm saying is probably close to bs most of the time due to the fact that the process in gambling itself IS rather short, to the point where it could be called nonexistent. OP's mindset might just work on other types of games but not really in gambling where it's a simple luck-based match. Maybe poker could count? But simple games such as slots? Pretty sure it's to each their own in that case.

I feel like this title is backwards, meaning we'll get upset when we lose money because we lose, and happy when we win. So in my opinion, we can not still feel happy if our money runs out due to losing bets. so, bet wisely, just make sure how much you want to bet, then control your emotions and don't be too lustful to reclaim them.

Everything must be ready, including in its responsibilities, gambling is not losing or winning, but we must be ready with our consistency that the game always wins and loses, therefore in my perspective it should be as if we are going to start over, and remember that gambling with the desire to win continuously is not maybe but I just think that luck will come and end, but not forever.
But we see in the title, don't be sad when you lose, let us have fun even though we have lost in gambling.

That perspective is wrong to me when you enter the world of gambling prepare for your loss, not in your win. Cause if you think that you always win for sure if the times will come that your luck is over and you will lose for sure you will not bet again, or leave-in gambling.
But if you are already prepared for your loss and the time will come that your luck is over you will say that it's okay no problem I will bet again,.

It is not said to Have Fun when you lose, but at least you can enjoy the moment while playing so If ever you lose at least you have fun while on the table?

we are in gambling of course for the hope to Make our funds increases , but it doesn't mean that we will always win as we already Knew that more often we lose than winning.

so with all of those, then why not Enjoy every seconds while in game than look for Win and then cry after losing .

You're right its part of our lives so we have to deal with it.

We just need to learn how to take our losses positively for us to move on without having regrets. Thats why dont risk the money you cant afford to lose (in general not only in gambling).

On the other side if you cant stand having losses then its better to dont gamble at all.

Is there really fun in loosing one's funds because in the process of you loosing your money it wouldn't be funny withing you except you have already made up your mind that you are going to lose the said money you are gambling with but if that is not your mind set then it will not be really funny loosing money brother.

You are right in what you say, but in an eventual loss you cannot die or commit suicide, what was lost was lost and something had to have been won, and that is the experience, perhaps getting out of control was not the strategy, but when it happens there is no turning back, you have to assume the loss and take it as fun, something like when you go out to a disco and spend a salary, something like this because it is the best way to take it and then raise your head and recuperate. I do not see any other alternative, it must be taken as an expensive teaching under which it cannot fall again.

Life is about lose and gain, that is the nature of life.  Even if you lose don't allow it to run you down and make you feel depressed.  Just take it in good fate that their are days like that. And the days for the wins is also coming. Do not take lose too serious, taking it as fun will give you the mind set that it's normal.

When reality slapped you into the face then you would really be finding out on whats the reality then you would really be get frustrated when you do lose and its no fun on losing.

Accepting the reality and be aware on how gambling works and how it does give out that losing feeling then you should really be prepared for that.Dont aim on getting profits or having
win in the end of the day because that wont really be simple as it sounds,

Gambling is for leisure or entertainment and you should stick into that principle but if you do already aim on making profits then that's an another
opposite thing.

almost 80% of those who come to gambling are those who are not ready to lose but don't deserve to win. they think gambling is the best and fastest way to make money and forget the "fun" side of gambling itself.

the more you are afraid to lose, the more you lose, so that before starting gambling we must also prepare mentally to lose today and play again in the future.