With the amount of hostility (often accompanied by as much ignorance) being posted it's perhaps not surprising that Gavin isn't responding
Hostility can have many faces.
There can surely be an open active hostility; e.g. when the bitcoin community accuses core devs of corruption (or at least a conflict of interest) and they demand an explanation. (which never comes, which makes them even more openly hostile)
But there can also be a hidden passive hostility; e.g. core devs intentionally sabotaging development of the project's original principles, by developing it in the opposite directions.
I totally get it, that Gavin and others perceive us as a bunch of assholes who don't even deserve an explanation - they are obviously too important piece of
the bitcoin elite to explain anything to us, an average users from some bitcointalk forum. But since we have already established this position, and it's pretty clear who we are for them, we (just like them) still do the best we can to help the community in building a prosperous future of this project. And that (among other things that we do, which
the bitcoin elite also doesn't give a shit about) is today, unfortunately warning people to be careful with trusting the cartel that took over the development of the satoshi client and to be careful with using the new incoming features.
You call it hostility - I call it sincerity.