I think you mean most crypto currency holders? Even then, I don't think we can say that most of the crypto currency holders prioritize spending their crypto holdings as payment in most of the things or services they need, I believe it's the opposite. Most of the people in this industry, regardless of financial status hoard crypto currencies as much as they can, especially Bitcoin. Although hoarding isn't ideal for this industry, it is what the majority opts for since there is a huge chance for profits depending on the type of crypto currency being held, and the higher the potential of the coin, the more likely it is that a person would hoard it most especially Bitcoin.
So don't go stressing about having that kind of mindset bro, you're not alone. Heck, even I am guilty of having such a mindset! lol. Still though, if convenient or if you think you already have quite a good amount of crypto, I still think that one should also spend them every once in a while, not only for self-satisfaction but to also contribute to the mass adoption that this industry desperately needs. Anyway, hope that this manages to shake off most of your worries about this kind of mindset bro.