today's lifestyle is increasingly consumptive so that it makes anyone want to follow trends that are currently popular, when income does not match expectations, the easiest thing is to get into debt, especially now that online debt offers with easy terms make many trapped in debt, it's natural that many say that taking loan is addicted.
A thing that you should really be avoiding as much as you could on where you are trying out to buy something which it is out of your budget or something that would be in line on what you are earning.
You would be putting yourself into a huge debt hole if you are really that too careless when it comes to your decisions.Its not bad to take up some loan but it would be much worth if you do loan up something specially if its attached with investment or other potential things that could benefit you.Its not bad to buy up some wants or from your wishlist sometimes but
making it as your primary considerations or give importance then it would be definitely wrong.
In the end, forcing one's will obviously won't have a good effect on our condition which will make it difficult and more difficult in the end.
Prestige is always there, but in the end we must also be aware that it is this prestige that leads us into an unavoidable abyss.
At present there are many examples of this, with the prestige we have, we will indeed look very good in the eyes of other people, but when we have difficulties in it, prestige will not help in the end.
Prestige is a double edged sword which may harm you when you are in difficult times. I don't believe that people who follow any trend are able to keep pace with their uncontrolable desires. Whatever we own for now or the furture, the first thing we have to bear in mind is not to compare what you have with others. Once you are content with what you have, you'll be happier in life in general.
Someone very close to me was in a situation like this. He took a loan and then was using loans to pay loans. He used his salary to pay debts and then took another loan. It got much worst later on when his salary could no longer cover the amount of debt he owed. He was struggling with this for about 5 years, but we close to him didn't know how deep in debt he really was. I mean, we knew he was in debt but we didn't realize it was this bad.
He came out of it eventually, but with a lot of discipline and determination. It was really hard for him. Last month he told me "March would be the first month in the past four years where I will be getting my full salary".
He hated the idea of me taking a loan, no matter how small it was. He kept saying "that's how it starts until you're in too deep'.
What I understood from him is that, when you're accustomed to taking loans, you'll take it at every opportunity you get. Borrowing becomes your first and only option even in situations where it should be your last.
Your friend is correct about his lesson. I think many people should learn from that. "Borrowing becomes your first and only option even in situations where it should be your last" is the sign of being addicted to taking loans. I have seen many people around me like this and end up in deep debts. The only way to avoid the abyss is to stay far away from it.