so happy, because in a state of sadness and pleasure,
we will deal with it together
Topic: Is there any happiness in marriage? (Read 940 times)
It was very sad to read your post. Maybe you just have not met a person with whom you would like to start a family? If you ever really want to have a child, the lack of money will not stop you. Money is important, but it does not solve everything.
People think that marriage is all about romance and love making. They need to know that it is much bigger than that. You are sharing your lofe with your loved one. You have to bear it all out during thick and thin. Before thinking of getting married, you need to ask yourself if you are ready for it.
marriage should be a consequence to a healthy relationship, not a starting point of it. you just don't first marry, than hope it to magically work miracles for you. If u are with a person you love and you want to create a family together, then yes, you will eventually get married, otherwise its not worth it.
Blockchain should solve the issue of trust in marriage 
200 percent sure. There is happiness in marriage. I understand all these problems you made a mention of . Sure it really exist in marriage but they are all part that makes the union greatand standing . I remembered i usually fight my wive at first . Sometimes we don't talk but as soon as we make it up to each other , the bond becomes extra strong so you see? Sure i totally respect your decision but i just want to tell you that there is true happiness in marriage especially when you know the man or the woman you just got married to
the fabric of love in the household will be harmonious if there are children in it because money is not everything to get happiness this is the purpose of marriage
There can definitely be happiness in marriage! I love my marriage. That doesn't mean that marriage is right for you. If you don't want to have children because you don't have a lot of money, one option could be to make more money. You should keep in mind though that, even if you have a lot of money, it very well may not be the best thing to just hand your children everything on a platter. They need to learn to work, set goals and get by in life on their own. Another option could certainly be to find a wife who also doesn't want children, if you don't want them. There are women out there that don't want children. The most important thing is to do what you want. If you want to get married, get married. You'll figure out the rest as you go. You're still young. Maybe you'll change your mind and get married when you're 30 or 40. There's nothing wrong with that.
Money has nothing to do with it, it's human nature or fear of losing their freedom!I think if the author gets rich, there are 1000 more reasons why you should not have children!
There is if you found the right one
I think for a normal man marriage is a big event,if he follows traditions he will be happy living together with his lovely wife and children. His family becomes one of the reasons to live
To me i will say that marriage is another boll game totally different from single life, moreover you can only have a happy home when you and your spouse build togetherness then you will end up having a happy home, most marriages are brooking because there lack understanding and trust, If the spouse lack togetherness they will not be happy.
You just have not found the right person beside you yet. No worries!
Hello everyone. The subject concerns all of us. Everyone can answer the question. It doesn’t matter you are married or not. I'm interested in the opinion of each person. I tell you my point of view.
Soon I will be 24 years old, I'm not married and I think that I will not marry. There are three reasons, two of them are interrelated.
The first and second reasons are money and children. In the early nineties, the situation was different, there was confidence in the future, so there was a high birth rate. Life was easier. But now in our realities, it is very difficult for newlyweds to grow up a child, there is practically no help from the state. I was born in an ordinary family, not poor, but also not rich. All my life I wasted time to earn money. I have spent all my free money on a realization of various projects, but they were unsuccessful. Now I spend about 9-12 hours per day without weekends doing bounty. I hope this time I will be able to earn enough money to start my own business. I do not want my child to go through all these difficulties. I want him to live a happy life. So I don’t understand why poor people have children. Lack of money will lead to regular quarrels, further may lead to divorce. It will negatively affect children.
The third reason is mistrust. Many married people doubt the loyalty of a partner. So they don’t let them meet their friends, hang out and things like that, you know. If they let, they will constantly call with checks. I have a feeling that after marriage, personal life ends. In my opinion worse than adultery can only be mistrust.
If money is your basis for happiness 100% you will fail, There are a people out there that have a lot of money but their married life was not a happy one and I also met below average earner despite the lack of money for everyday living but he lives with his family very happy. Come to think of it that money can't buy real happiness. Soon I will be 24 years old, I'm not married and I think that I will not marry. There are three reasons, two of them are interrelated.
The first and second reasons are money and children. In the early nineties, the situation was different, there was confidence in the future, so there was a high birth rate. Life was easier. But now in our realities, it is very difficult for newlyweds to grow up a child, there is practically no help from the state. I was born in an ordinary family, not poor, but also not rich. All my life I wasted time to earn money. I have spent all my free money on a realization of various projects, but they were unsuccessful. Now I spend about 9-12 hours per day without weekends doing bounty. I hope this time I will be able to earn enough money to start my own business. I do not want my child to go through all these difficulties. I want him to live a happy life. So I don’t understand why poor people have children. Lack of money will lead to regular quarrels, further may lead to divorce. It will negatively affect children.
The third reason is mistrust. Many married people doubt the loyalty of a partner. So they don’t let them meet their friends, hang out and things like that, you know. If they let, they will constantly call with checks. I have a feeling that after marriage, personal life ends. In my opinion worse than adultery can only be mistrust.
Marriage really is a great blessing and every part of it should bring happiness. This is of course possible only when it is done right. Many people dishonor principles these days and expect to have a great marriage. I say this not just as a conservative Christian but also from common sense. Your points are very valid. If you aren't financially stable, you really have no business with marriage. But mistrust must be handled between the two partners. It is how you show maturity, I believe.
Marriage is good if the wife or husband understands you
To be happy is not necessary to live in a marriage, it's enough just to be with a loved one!
I think that if it is a free marriage, then it will be very happy. On the contrary, those marriages caused by money are tragedies! What do you think?
There is happiness in marriage definitely yes because,the happiness of all life is made of the future descendants of peace from good relationships.marriage brings perfection of human life I love my life partner.
I respect your opinion, but we need to know that in this world we are created in pairs.
by marrying we can continue the offspring and also to feel the struggle of this life with our partner our life.
Absolutely true, there are happiness in marriage when you marry in the right person because there will always take caring of you love you in good and bad times always understand you and there are some one being there for you when you have problem comfort you and say I'm just here for you always remember that you have me in your life no matter what happened 😍😍😍 by marrying we can continue the offspring and also to feel the struggle of this life with our partner our life.
Yes. My uncle has been happily married for as long as I can remember, so at least 22 years. My Mom's mom was happily married for 50+ years or so before my grandfather passed away.
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