I've been told quite a few times that I couldn't have real feelings because I'm male. That was an instant 'fuck off' for them. It was the same for women since time immemorial and it's still the case for them across a huge amount of the planet. Right now it's all a giant mess as everyone tries to find new balances that have been hard wired into us since we crawled out of the slime.
Overall it's a healthy thing. It's pretty sucky to be one of the generations fumbling their way through it. Men right now don't deserve to be treated like shit just as women in the past didn't deserve it.
I can sympathise with the Japanese grass eaters. I'm not sure the pain is worth the potential gain, which may be pathetically short lived anyway.