The life that we're having right now really differs from the past and how the past old folks dealt with it and how we're dealing with it right now. It's true that we value ourselves more these times, we don't mind what it takes but as long as we're happy and we're having a good time, that's what matters. Especially, in emotional aspect, most of the generation today from the young adults are experiencing this and even those that are studying and coming to the point that they're worried about their future.
Well, we have ways of dealing it and as you've said, we need to find our interest and we can deal it with how we want it to be. There's no need to stress ourselves out by thinking and dealing about it. Because whatever we do, those problems and adulting and job matters are going to pass. Regardless of what type of person you are, that's the reality and those problems will just pass by.
So, valuing yourself and doing all the grind from the early 20s to late, while on your 30s, don't be pressured by what the society is thinking that you should be established and whatnot. Because not everyone had a good start on those periods, remember the story of Colonel Sanders and other known entrepreneurs and successful people, they've found their winning life on their late 40s, 50s, and even 60s and more.
That's the most important part, my 20's were basically nothing, only after 27 or 28 that I found my current job and I started to do fine, but until I was 27 or 28 I was basically a nobody, lived terrible, was poor, and had so many troubles in life. After I got my current job, which I have been working for many years now, I started to pay all my debt back, and take care of my family, been very hard because I had many deaths in the family during the same period, when you are at your 30's, you start to lose loved ones, and they go one by one, and if not death, then at least sickness, like my mom had heart issue, but she got a bypass and feeling much better now, but that takes money and time as well.
So sometimes, you need to realize that things don't have to be easy for everyone, sometimes you face a tough life, and sometimes you have an amazing life in everything else, like I have my health, a lovely wife, a happy marriage, financially doing ok, not rich but ok, but I faced death of loved ones, when others look at your normal day, they think you are happy, but they do not realize that even after many years, that death still haunts you and sometimes you still cry, just because you have money or good marriage, doesn't guarantee you will be happy, it's of course very helpful, but doesn't mean all is okay.