what's so surprising about that? this is normal
It is not,being normal means being socialized which means you always have people around you but being lonely might feels curse most of the time because if we are hurt there will be no sweet words to comfort us. 
Topic: Lonliness is a disease or gift? (Read 215 times)
It depends on each person, it will be a gift if someone wants to be alone. But for you, it is a disease, because you need someone to share.
I recommend going out more, talking more with people.
I recommend going out more, talking more with people.
what's so surprising about that? this is normal
Most of the time I feel lonely due to my personal life situations so I am in need of someone to share my feelings but never got the right so for me being lonely feels like a curse and like mnetally sick.
Being lonely on your opinion?
Being lonely on your opinion?
It's a curse, unfortunately with people I often hate the limitations that come with being around them. I need my space. If I'm completely alone somewhere I have time to think, my brain seems to work better, but there are times where I just don't want to be alone, where it feels like some kind of prison.
There is a reason why one of the most severe punishments our society (USA) uses is solitary confinement.
There is always some "Grass is greener on the other side" and being with people doesn't mean you're not alone. Unfortunately there aren't always going to be people you bond well with so when you have these people in your life, don't push them away and cherish the moments with them.
Most of the time I feel lonely due to my personal life situations so I am in need of someone to share my feelings but never got the right so for me being lonely feels like a curse and like mnetally sick.
Being lonely on your opinion?
Being lonely on your opinion?
Some alone time is nice, but i dont think that loneliness is a gift, and i think it is not healthy in the long run.
Loneliness might be a gift for somebody who thinks we are not alone in the universe.
Loneliness is a really good feeling that allows you to appreciate life in all its glory
How can a human being appreciate the fact that nobody in the world doesn't give a damn about him? 
Loneliness is the saddest thing in the world.
Very saddens to be lonely! It can makes someone kill himself. I feel that before and it can make you develop a very bad habit that you will regret later. Many people are addicted to drugs, mastibation, pornography and gambling today because of loneliness. To me it a curse and tried to find someone to share your feelings with is the solutions.
for me at least it kinds of a gift, because I like being alone and mostly I spend my time by my self.
I dont really like being in crowded place unless its with my family or friends
I dont really like being in crowded place unless its with my family or friends
Only strong people can love loneliness
Most of the time I feel lonely due to my personal life situations so I am in need of someone to share my feelings but never got the right so for me being lonely feels like a curse and like mnetally sick.
Being lonely on your opinion?
Being lonely on your opinion?
Being lonely isn't a problem, it's how you react to it. If you cry and harm yourself, it's bad. If you work to change the world or find ways to help others, it's good. Remember, the same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg.
if you want it then its not loneliness
I love being alone, it's a fun feeling
Loneliness is a really good feeling that allows you to appreciate life in all its glory
Loneliness is the saddest thing in the world.
Loneliness is a gift, only the strongest people can love loneliness
I like the solitude. Socializing is draining my energy.
But I am also feeling lonely sometimes. We human is a social creature by nature. In this case, I have a few friends, trusted friends.
I knew my friends from some project we did together. I met them by coincidence. I met some of them from the workshop I've joined, or volunteer project I did. So it always requires your intention first to meet new people so you can have friends. By participating in some project, I gain value for my self; I met new people, and I get friends that share the same beliefs as I am. And so I knew I could trust them and the relationship will last longer and more in-depth. It eliminates the drama, gossips, and useless activity that drains my energy, something I don't like.
But I am also feeling lonely sometimes. We human is a social creature by nature. In this case, I have a few friends, trusted friends.
I knew my friends from some project we did together. I met them by coincidence. I met some of them from the workshop I've joined, or volunteer project I did. So it always requires your intention first to meet new people so you can have friends. By participating in some project, I gain value for my self; I met new people, and I get friends that share the same beliefs as I am. And so I knew I could trust them and the relationship will last longer and more in-depth. It eliminates the drama, gossips, and useless activity that drains my energy, something I don't like.
Most of the time I feel lonely due to my personal life situations so I am in need of someone to share my feelings but never got the right so for me being lonely feels like a curse and like mnetally sick.
Being lonely on your opinion?
Being lonely can bring you mental problem because it’s not easy to be lonely when there are thousands of people around you that can be at your side.maybe try to be with others and never treat them as most reliable because I can feel your frustrations here .instead make people a friend and from there you can find the right one to release your inner problems.i know this will take time but worth a wait my friend Being lonely on your opinion?
Both because you wont deal with people's bullshit and yet when you need someone, you can run to no one.
If loneliness makes you suffer or makes you feel something is missing from your life, in my opinion it could be a disease for you.
But if loneliness makes you more comfortable, or can help you to be better, more productive, I think it's a gift for you.
For me, loneliness is a gift because I feel more comfortable when I'm alone. But I also don't like it happening all the time
But if loneliness makes you more comfortable, or can help you to be better, more productive, I think it's a gift for you.
For me, loneliness is a gift because I feel more comfortable when I'm alone. But I also don't like it happening all the time
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