Topic: Love - its just a physical attraction? - page 3. (Read 602 times)
for me personally love is a feeling that can not be forced by anything, not looking at the physical but something else like sacrifice and a strong commitment, to protect each other.
Anyone saying they've found "the one" by just looking at them and haven't even spoken to has just been overcome with a desire to possess said person.
Exactly,this also get manipulated by movie and entertainment programme we are watching for years and years since our childhood so it makes us to believe this is the love and the whole world is running behind this philosophy.We have to convert "love at first sight" into "lust at first sight".
It's something that we develop over time I guess. When people spend a lot of time with you and you end up caring for them, I guess that's what love is. That's why I don't believe in love at first sight. Family, friends, spouse, these are people who you spend time with throughout your life. Love is something that is developed. For example, there are some cultures when two people are married by their parents at a young age, without them even knowing each other. Most of the time, because they're always together, they end up caring and falling in love. At tleast that's how I see it.
"Love" is a broad concept that don't even have a definition but I'm going to assume you are mostly thinking of romantic love since you mentioned attraction. IMHO it starts really as just that - attraction.
I don't believe in "love at first sight". All the other "love" has some sort of attachment or emotional investment to it - child to parent and vice versa, friendship, pets, etc. I don't see why romantic love should be any different.
Anyone saying they've found "the one" by just looking at them and haven't even spoken to has just been overcome with a desire to possess said person.
I don't believe in "love at first sight". All the other "love" has some sort of attachment or emotional investment to it - child to parent and vice versa, friendship, pets, etc. I don't see why romantic love should be any different.
Anyone saying they've found "the one" by just looking at them and haven't even spoken to has just been overcome with a desire to possess said person.
Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.
I cannot say that I have felt the true love yet.
From my perspective love is unconditional for my family members and I would do anything for them without asking back something from them. Also, I try to create a better future from them. That's who I can explain love.
Love is physical attraction, but it has got care with it. Lust is the one that has got only physical attraction. When you're with Lust over someone you'll never feel his/her feelings and care about them. All that required is the physical pleasure out of the body. With love the same happens, but there will be lot of sharing and care for each other.
I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.
Opposite sides doesn't necessarily attract when it comes to relationships but I see a trend where people tend to find traits in their partners that they seem to lack or want. Physical attractions is the basis at which every relationship begins.There is the question of why we are physically attracted to certain people (beyond those who are stereotypically good looking, symmetrical features, slim, etc.)
I suspect there is a genetic basis to why we like who we like, whether it's certain pheromones or whatever, I don't know, I'm not aware of any studies into it, just a suspicion.
I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.
Opposite sides doesn't necessarily attract when it comes to relationships but I see a trend where people tend to find traits in their partners that they seem to lack or want. Physical attractions is the basis at which every relationship begins. 
lust is the physical attraction
my family are ugly, but i still love them
love is about caring and wanting to help/protect them, wanting to do something positive for others, and the feeling of something positive done to you by others
my family are ugly, but i still love them
love is about caring and wanting to help/protect them, wanting to do something positive for others, and the feeling of something positive done to you by others
Uugh?! Your family are beautiful. See? I love them more than you do. Why do you talk about them that way?
Lust is not the physical attraction!
Quote from: https://www.dictionary.com/browse/lust?s=t
lust
[ luhst ]
noun
1. intense sexual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
3. a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually followed by for): a lust for power.
4. ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: an enviable lust for life.
[ luhst ]
noun
1. intense sexual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite; lecherousness.
3. a passionate or overmastering desire or craving (usually followed by for): a lust for power.
4. ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: an enviable lust for life.
Physical attraction is simply the recognition of beauty.
physical attraction does not apply. as i know people who are obese, rotton teeth, bad smell smoke breath.. but they love each other and been together for decades
Yes,I did also met the couples who were black and white,obese and skinny and more exact opposite but still they got attracted and for that they would use world heart.But in reality heart has any job with love. 
It is supposed to pump the blood to make us alive right?
I think attraction is quite complex. There is the common saying that 'opposites attract', which does have some scientific corroboration. A small study (90 couples) found less genetic similarity between couple than between random strangers.
alot of people think love is about finding a spouse... its not
love is much mor simple.. it can be the non sexual thing. you know to love a family member. or to love th taste of chocolate
so love is not physical attraction. it doesnt even have to be someone that mentally inspires you.
but in most different categories of 'love' one thing remains
the desire to have someone/something to care for and keep for your and their benefit
that covers things like the love of a father to keep family safe. the love of a career to take care of ones lifestyle. the love of chocolate for the desire of the benefit of its taste
physical attraction does not apply. as i know people who are obese, rotton teeth, bad smell smoke breath.. but they love each other and been together for decades
love is much mor simple.. it can be the non sexual thing. you know to love a family member. or to love th taste of chocolate
so love is not physical attraction. it doesnt even have to be someone that mentally inspires you.
but in most different categories of 'love' one thing remains
the desire to have someone/something to care for and keep for your and their benefit
that covers things like the love of a father to keep family safe. the love of a career to take care of ones lifestyle. the love of chocolate for the desire of the benefit of its taste
physical attraction does not apply. as i know people who are obese, rotton teeth, bad smell smoke breath.. but they love each other and been together for decades
Everyone in this world knows what is the meaning of love and it also involved in everyone's life from different relationship but what's your thought about the love.
They say there are a lot of definitions on what the word love could really mean. For some reason, Love seems subjective, it's actual meaning often varies depending on a person's point of view/ life experience. For a mother, it could be the joy of giving birth, to a father it may be seeing his son follow in his footsteps, etc. At first it's pure chemistry. You can google the chemical reactions that go inside our bodies when we are in love. It's funny but people in love are like on mild drugs. I've been there and I still remember this feeling of pleasure and relaxation when I was with my partner. It's that pleasure you feel right after a good sex, when in love you're like that for days. If there was a pill simulating this feeling I'd probably try it out (for scientific purposes of course).
I did also read about the chemical reactions happening in our brain when we are falling for someone so its something normal right,this thing also can be replaced and could be.Still why many goes heart broken and end up their life when their partner broke up with them.I just want to laugh at those people.Is love is that much serious for anyone?
Not always completely physical but usually starts as a physical attraction.
This is our instincts. We are clever animals. I know there are certain things which separate us from the animals but we sometimes ignore these and just go with our instincts.
To fall in love with someone, you first need to know that person. To know him/her, you need to see or feel him/her in some way. Our eyes give us the first impression about somebody. Usually everything starts with our eyes. Then the other stuff comes...
This is our instincts. We are clever animals. I know there are certain things which separate us from the animals but we sometimes ignore these and just go with our instincts.
To fall in love with someone, you first need to know that person. To know him/her, you need to see or feel him/her in some way. Our eyes give us the first impression about somebody. Usually everything starts with our eyes. Then the other stuff comes...
Love is a physical repulsion that is just so amazing and intriguing to people, that they just have to dive into it to find out what it's all about.
At first it's pure chemistry. You can google the chemical reactions that go inside our bodies when we are in love. It's funny but people in love are like on mild drugs. I've been there and I still remember this feeling of pleasure and relaxation when I was with my partner. It's that pleasure you feel right after a good sex, when in love you're like that for days. If there was a pill simulating this feeling I'd probably try it out (for scientific purposes of course).
love is to have affection of someone, you don't really care how she look, this time, physical appearance doesn't matter anymore. also you will feel unease if she is not around, in other words you are afraid to lose her. you only want to see her, every minute with her is like a treasure. what i'm saying here is, love for a woman.that love is what we always feel as a man when we were young.
There's a number of things that add to being with someone. You can feel attraction at first sight but it's not love. Love develops over time. You can't really love someone you haven't talked to. Teenagers see someone and like to say they fell in love but it's just the first stage. If you don't keep meeting and talking to each other the feeling will disappear or get redirected to someone else.
Its called infatuation correct me if I am wrong but it just happens with matured people as well,how many couple who got married after loving each other for years but want to get divorced in few months or years once they get life bored with the partner,I think it happens at every corner of the world.Then financial status of the partner,even if we say it is not true love more people tend to fall in love with an ugly guy if he is rich.
There's a number of things that add to being with someone. You can feel attraction at first sight but it's not love. Love develops over time. You can't really love someone you haven't talked to. Teenagers see someone and like to say they fell in love but it's just the first stage. If you don't keep meeting and talking to each other the feeling will disappear or get redirected to someone else.
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