I view people who are looking for rich people to marry to get rich as leeches. I hate this kind of people because they want to enjoy other's hard work without working hard themselves. IMO, I prefer people who work hard and make their way to becoming rich through hard work and smart decisions.
hahaha... we have similarities, I also hate parasites like that.
Everyone wants to be rich, but everyone has a different view in assessing wealth, whether it is wealth of the heart, financial or other things, this can be the subject of their assessment.
These days, there's only one description for being rich and that's all about money. Whether we like it or not, that's what truly is what the majority believes. Being wealthy is all about money to the most but as you've said which is right, there are many descriptions of what being wealthy really is. And as we goal for being rich, there have been methods that are being done the odd way or we should say that it is no longer odd because many are doing it.
It's quite natural that wealth orientation = having a lot of money, that's not wrong and that's how wealth is generally seen, because nowadays the main problem for everyone in life is money, money, and money, so it's quite understandable from this general point of view.
But it's true that getting married requires money, but that doesn't mean you have to wait to get rich first to get it, this is a little different. IMO
Yes, working your ass 24/7 to become rich just before getting married. Many got that mindset before that everyone should be at the best status of their lives before they get married. But that's not the point or it is the point because as you have said that we've got different views.
This is more about principles and more advanced thinking in my opinion, people who have this mindset have studied problems in previous people's households, most marriage problems and failures are due to economic problems and again it's about money, I also don't close my eyes and an ear for it