Just accept it. The European Union doesn't care about Ukraine. Already the donor nations are struggling with the parasites such as Poland and Romania. They will oppose any proposal to grant membership to Ukraine. Also, the sanctions against Russia and the counter-sanctions have caused hundreds of billions of USD worth of losses to the EU nations. It will be scrapped within a year.
I agree with the fact that Ukraine actually does not support Europe. It's just a bluff. Europe is no benefit there from Ukraine. The only salvation for Ukraine - a peace with Russia. But the Ukrainian government is not actively want to see the obvious