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Maybe the best approach with that is never expect anything huge so that we will not expect and got hurt on each result show then we can still be fine once our expectation didn't show up. But we should aim to win since without that we will not be careful on our betting style, also the eagerness to win would make us so aware about possible scenarios that contribute for our lose. That's why we should target to win since this will be more fun to us especially when we easily got settled up then know when to withdraw our earned profits on a casino.
Although we don't have anything to rely on slot but certain rituals or other thing we believe can possibly make our betting activity more exciting since sometimes doing that can make us comfortable on what we do.
We don't need to have a goal to win, but just be careful when playing gambling because if we have a goal to win, we can forget about managing the money, so we might use more money to achieve our goal. And when we lose, we may not be able to accept the loss, so we will be triggered to spend even more money. This will provide an even greater risk of loss because by using more money than usual, the possibility of us losing will be greater, which means we will lose more money.
The important thing is that in playing gambling, we can get pleasure and enjoy our free time by gambling. We also won't try to chase victory because we already know that it's difficult to do. We will just play gambling casually and stop when we can still stop.
Agree with you that we cannot have a goal in winning at gambling, getting win is desire that is appropriate to have but in gambling we cannot get it.
Every goal of winning is always shrouded in darkness or the risk of defeat that no one can avoid, even losing in an effort to win at gambling can be much worse and truly unimaginable.
Someone will spend whatever money they have to win and they don't care about losing because the dopamine that exists is only about winning and winning.
By just having fun and being able to manage our time, we will never experience bad things that are too disappointing or devastating.
When we can manage our time and gamble with full awareness, we can avoid bad behavior in gambling and it is even impossible for us to do things that are too far beyond our limits.