This is a matter to be taken serious many parents pays less attention to children family at home, i can strongly believe to make a good family then a good listening ear should be given to your home rather than being so called occupied at work place. I have witnessed many family around my locality gone bad due to lack of parenting, as a fact we should try our best to put them first and make them happy because without your family you will be incomplete and unhappy.
Yes now parents are so busy in their lives they are either working or busy with socializing and have given gadgets to their children to keep them busy. They are left unmonitored and unchecked whatever they are watching no check on that content. That damages and disturbs children mind . Parents now should be careful with their children with what they are doing . This mobile ,games exposure is causing aggressiveness in today's generation. 
Topic: Our children should be our first priority (Read 426 times)
This is a matter to be taken serious many parents pays less attention to children family at home, i can strongly believe to make a good family then a good listening ear should be given to your home rather than being so called occupied at work place. I have witnessed many family around my locality gone bad due to lack of parenting, as a fact we should try our best to put them first and make them happy because without your family you will be incomplete and unhappy.
Parents are children's first teacher and home is their first school they'll learn alot of basic and important things from their parents and siblings like how to behave with other people outside, respect ,your way of communication and interaction all are taught to you st your home.
So parents should give alot of attention to thier children basic and informal education so that they should become a good fellow in school and college.
Never develop this habit in your children that whatever they want they'll get ASAP they should have habit of listening to "NO". This will help them to face rejection in life.
So parents should give alot of attention to thier children basic and informal education so that they should become a good fellow in school and college.
Never develop this habit in your children that whatever they want they'll get ASAP they should have habit of listening to "NO". This will help them to face rejection in life.
Education from parents is indeed number one, because at that time children begin to develop and absorb all existing knowledge.
parents must always be there for their children, even though they are busy working, but there must always be warm communication between children and parents.
children should be given more love, because it is important for their psychology, because children who lack love tend to be difficult to manage.
For parents, take your time for your child even in any busy situation, because actually caring for or taking care of a child is a special moment in life.
parents must always be there for their children, even though they are busy working, but there must always be warm communication between children and parents.
children should be given more love, because it is important for their psychology, because children who lack love tend to be difficult to manage.
For parents, take your time for your child even in any busy situation, because actually caring for or taking care of a child is a special moment in life.
Children always follow their parent footsteps ,they will learn by example like they observe what their parents are doing and how they are living their lives and they will live theirs accordingly trust me. You can never teach children things which you yourself are not doing infront of them. so set a good standard for them to make them a responsible and good citizen of society.
Children who are raised with a good pattern will definitely become a good person, otherwise children who are raised with a bad pattern will definitely become a bad person.
Parents must educate their children well, so that later the child can become a good person.
good parenting
1. open to children
2. parents must be compact
3. Parents set a good example
4. give compliments and a touch of love
5.discipline
6. Teach good manners
7. Use positive sentences
8. Effective communication.
and of course the children should be the top priority.
Parents must educate their children well, so that later the child can become a good person.
good parenting
1. open to children
2. parents must be compact
3. Parents set a good example
4. give compliments and a touch of love
5.discipline
6. Teach good manners
7. Use positive sentences
8. Effective communication.
and of course the children should be the top priority.
And you have to start them young. With how the world is these days, sometimes good parenting wouldn't be enough. I think main priority is to teach them to be able to resist peer pressure later on when they hit their teens. That's usually want fuck up many people's lives.
At first I also thought same but later realized that when you train your children properly from their infant stage, they won't feel comfortable being in the midst of peer who have different home training from them. Peers actually influence the behavior of our children but good parenting will not allow them to mingle with such peer that will influence them in a negative way. 
In addition to all these, As a parent, you should also be able to share your life experiences with your kids, so they can learn from their parent. Tell them about some potential mistakes you almost made and the mistakes you made as well, so they can learn from you and not fall victims to those mistakes. If you do not tell them about your experiences for them to learn from you, they will learn from another person and that may not be good.
One of the ways children learn is from life experience that occurred in the life experience. Most children when parents shares bad experiences in the youthful age they feel so concern about it and try as much not to make that same mistake. As a kid their many life experiences my parents told me when I was young which I have used to pattern my life not to make same mistakes. When children are taught the right things at young age it helps to guide them as they grow, but when parents fails to teach them the reality of life, children leave the way they want to live their life.
Good parenting doesn't stop in providing things for the children. It also includes:
👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Create the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.
In addition to all these, As a parent, you should also be able to share your life experiences with your kids, so they can learn from their parent. Tell them about some potential mistakes you almost made and the mistakes you made as well, so they can learn from you and not fall victims to those mistakes. If you do not tell them about your experiences for them to learn from you, they will learn from another person and that may not be good. 👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Create the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.
Our children should be our first priority
Second priority. First priority would be to personally get right with God's salvation. After than, one will know how to teach the most important thing to his (and other) children.
Second priority. First priority would be to personally get right with God's salvation. After than, one will know how to teach the most important thing to his (and other) children.
Our children should be your priority first. That's why it is always advised to be financially, physically, spiritually and mentally ready before you go in for parenting. Parenting is a whole lot of job that takes your whole being to be involved in it.
My advice to people is that don't go into parenting when you are not capable of catering and sacrificing for your family. That's why you see parents doing their best to see their children succeed more than them in life.
My advice to people is that don't go into parenting when you are not capable of catering and sacrificing for your family. That's why you see parents doing their best to see their children succeed more than them in life.
👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.
👉👉 Always keep eye on their company, see whome they are meeting and if they have wrong friends so keep them away.
👉👉 Teach them to respect the elders and olders.
As a parent we should know our obligation that we must be responsible to our child. It's true that it really hard to care an raise a child, but since we enter an made a family it's important that we prioritize our child care. It's really difficult when child grown up undisciplined we can not please them to do what is good for them because they independs on their self decision unlike that we give an attention to our child we're able to guide them and discipline. Don't waste time if we're able to keep our child safe and security's.
based on my experience. if you love your child then never let someone else take care of your child. because the child will learn from who raised him. Hiring a nanny is great. but don't let your child spend more time with the caregiver. it will affect the harmony between children and parents in the future. when the child is an adult. different from children who are always cared for by their parents. then the harmony between children and parents will be very strong and even stronger in the future. Children become indifferent to their parents because in the past the parents were also indifferent to their children. children just imitate. if your child wants to watch over you in the future. So be a parent who always pays attention to his child. without having to be asked. and do it voluntarily based on affection.
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Children will always be children while inbthe presence of their parents as long as they are still alive, a child cannot cease from being the son or daughter to the guardian they taught and brought him/her up right from childhood, children were expected to also make their parents happy by adhering to instructions given, one of the first things a child can give back to his parents is obedient, because they will also turn a parent one day sooner or later.
Your children don't stop being your children simply because they grow up. The difference may be that they don't require as much support from you.
When they have grown up, this leaves you open to do politics so that you can get laws changed, and make more justice to help them more.
Never stop helping your children and grandchildren.
When they have grown up, this leaves you open to do politics so that you can get laws changed, and make more justice to help them more.
Never stop helping your children and grandchildren.
Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
I believe that what we now instill in children in childhood will be a strong foundation for them when they grow up. there are small and simple things in life that actually become good lessons for them in later adulthood, of course the condition is that we are able to bring children to give meaning to simple events experienced in everyday life.
Taking care of children is not an easy job, it is not only the duty of the wife but our duty as the head of the household.
I think this is a big challenge, not easy because it requires unlimited time, not only limited to parenting, priorities, beliefs, culture, but all things that we can give as good knowledge must be given including love.
Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
How much is few ? 2 ? 3 ? 5 is few, compared to families to have 10-20 kids. How did you make that calculation. And why do you think limiting amount of babies is ok? If parents are good persons, why should they have only few? Being rich does not equal having lots of kids. You can be poor, but be a good man, with lots of experience and love to share. It is not about number, but about what kind of parent person is. Parents goal is to give good education/upbringing. Everything else is up to the kid.
Parenting go along way to affect children's life styles, the community and the society in large. Most country suffer violence due to bad parenting, friend influence and environment factor. But in most cases good parenting may help to overcome other factors earlier mentioned. Imagine when children are abandoned at home without proper care while parents worked, gambled or partied. Such children will have no choice than to later indulge in some criminal act to sustain their life. Such children pick up any life style they want since there isn't anyone to correct their bad behavior. Children deserve to be put first. They shouldn't be worked around mummy's or daddy's more important schedule. Good parenting doesn't stop in providing things for the children. It also includes:
👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.
Although some parent claim being poor is the cause of their bad parenting. Everyone in the society can't be rich. You can give the best to your children with the little you have. Let's train our children well as they are the future leaders of our country.
Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
You have written well ams this is the kind of things parents and guidance need to put in place and to do so that children and those that are coming up will never grow up in the wrong and live inappropriate lifestyle. We need to prepare and make sure that we guide children from going astray doing what will be detrimental to there health or lifestyle when they grow up. 👉👉Being a good listener.
👉👉Keep eye on whatsoever they do and give advice when necessary
👉👉Direct their career path. These doesn't mean you should impose a career on them. Study them to know what they are good at to direct them on the career to choose. One always strive easily when one choose what he loves doing most as ones career.
👉👉Teach them the various norms of the society
👉👉Teach them about your culture.
👉👉Creat the fear of God in them.
👉👉Try all what you can to make them happy. Let them see their home as the best.
Although some parent claim being poor is the cause of their bad parenting. Everyone in the society can't be rich. You can give the best to your children with the little you have. Let's train our children well as they are the future leaders of our country.
Conclusion
Let's give our children all they need from us as a parent. Only make few babies that you can avoid to offer your being and time. Good parenting have great influence on our children, society, country and the whole world at large.
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