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What do you make out of this story, should we really allow our children to live such a lifestyle like gambling and night clubbing, most especially, when they are still under aged?

Let's discuss about this..


I don't want to be a judge, with a story that happened to one of these people who was once a basketball superstars.

I'm sure, almost all members of our forum are very familiar with the name Michael Jordan, he was one of the basketball superstarts in his era. however, what is told in this thread. reminds me of another member's thread, which raised one of the roles of parental genetics in offspring.

on the other hand, I am reminded of the old saying "LIKE FATHER LIKE SON". this parable describes what happened to Michael Jordan and his son Marcus Jordan. with the financial ability he has, spending this amount of money, is normal for him, as well as his son.

I guess what happened to his son was none other than what his father did. the child, has the privilege of the billionaire father. in other words, I have no answer to what this Marcus Jordan did. because after all, it was his father who gave him the privilege.
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November 01, 2022, 07:00:31 AM
Apparent who is teaching the children how to gamble that parents is trying to mislead and the discouraged the children for a right way of surviving in life sometimes gambling is for rich people and they use it for leisure hour but some people don't understand that that is meant for rich people for play but extending it to children that you born that have not make any way for their self that means you are encouraging them for the bad part of life it is not good to educate children gambling from the starting.
It's not correct, gambling isn't only for rich people, but actually gambling is for people who can manage their money and control their emotion. Even though rich people will have more money they can afford to lose, but if they keep bet with huge amount and only to chase winning to recover their previous losses. They will become rekt in the future, this will make them in trouble. This is why gambling isn't for chase winning, but for fun.

I have taught my kid to gamble to stimulate his brain to work, to let him think over strategies, to learn basic math, to learn to bluff, to learn to be cunny. We are playing card games, monopoly, some games with chips and etc. Just basic games where no money are involved. Let my kid now basics of gambling at home, but not at a place with slots. But to be honest, I've tried playing slots with lunch money. I have never succeeded, and probably that is why it did not hook me and I got no addiction.

For family leisure purposes, we've dont this with my siblings and cousins too with their young kids.
Gambling is not entirely bad. It's not not-to gamble that you teach your children, because they'll eventually learn when they grow up especially when they become very interested in it. Instead, a parent should teach their children how to manage their money financially. So, I have to agree to the user above that gambling is for people who can manage their money very well in terms of gambling.  Otherwise, you'll get broke in no time.

That is only in theory,we all know how difficult is to manage money not only in gambling but in every sphere of life.I think this is the reason that we have sooooooooo many books on financial literacy like ; Rich dad,poor dad,The richest man in Babylon,Think and Grow rich etc.

In gambling this is even more difficult.What we should teach our children is that in gambling there is little benefit and only rarely while the damage is huge if we gamble persistently because the gambling is projected to make money to its owners,like casino owners in the long run and not to the average player.
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November 01, 2022, 04:32:39 AM
Apparent who is teaching the children how to gamble that parents is trying to mislead and the discouraged the children for a right way of surviving in life sometimes gambling is for rich people and they use it for leisure hour but some people don't understand that that is meant for rich people for play but extending it to children that you born that have not make any way for their self that means you are encouraging them for the bad part of life it is not good to educate children gambling from the starting.
It's not correct, gambling isn't only for rich people, but actually gambling is for people who can manage their money and control their emotion. Even though rich people will have more money they can afford to lose, but if they keep bet with huge amount and only to chase winning to recover their previous losses. They will become rekt in the future, this will make them in trouble. This is why gambling isn't for chase winning, but for fun.

I have taught my kid to gamble to stimulate his brain to work, to let him think over strategies, to learn basic math, to learn to bluff, to learn to be cunny. We are playing card games, monopoly, some games with chips and etc. Just basic games where no money are involved. Let my kid now basics of gambling at home, but not at a place with slots. But to be honest, I've tried playing slots with lunch money. I have never succeeded, and probably that is why it did not hook me and I got no addiction.

For family leisure purposes, we've dont this with my siblings and cousins too with their young kids.
Gambling is not entirely bad. It's not not-to gamble that you teach your children, because they'll eventually learn when they grow up especially when they become very interested in it. Instead, a parent should teach their children how to manage their money financially. So, I have to agree to the user above that gambling is for people who can manage their money very well in terms of gambling.  Otherwise, you'll get broke in no time.
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November 01, 2022, 03:26:17 AM
Apparent who is teaching the children how to gamble that parents is trying to mislead and the discouraged the children for a right way of surviving in life sometimes gambling is for rich people and they use it for leisure hour but some people don't understand that that is meant for rich people for play but extending it to children that you born that have not make any way for their self that means you are encouraging them for the bad part of life it is not good to educate children gambling from the starting.
It's not correct, gambling isn't only for rich people, but actually gambling is for people who can manage their money and control their emotion. Even though rich people will have more money they can afford to lose, but if they keep bet with huge amount and only to chase winning to recover their previous losses. They will become rekt in the future, this will make them in trouble. This is why gambling isn't for chase winning, but for fun.

That is correct, gambling is for fun, and not for trying to get rich. And it does not matter if gambler if rich or poor. Those who gamble make bets they can afford, and they loose identically, they have similar feeling of a loss. Loosing a million for a millionaire is same as person that earns 1000 losses several hundreds.

I have taught my kid to gamble to stimulate his brain to work, to let him think over strategies, to learn basic math, to learn to bluff, to learn to be cunny. We are playing card games, monopoly, some games with chips and etc. Just basic games where no money are involved. Let my kid now basics of gambling at home, but not at a place with slots. But to be honest, I've tried playing slots with lunch money. I have never succeeded, and probably that is why it did not hook me and I got no addiction.

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October 31, 2022, 10:28:19 PM
Apparent who is teaching the children how to gamble that parents is trying to mislead and the discouraged the children for a right way of surviving in life sometimes gambling is for rich people and they use it for leisure hour but some people don't understand that that is meant for rich people for play but extending it to children that you born that have not make any way for their self that means you are encouraging them for the bad part of life it is not good to educate children gambling from the starting.
It's not correct, gambling isn't only for rich people, but actually gambling is for people who can manage their money and control their emotion. Even though rich people will have more money they can afford to lose, but if they keep bet with huge amount and only to chase winning to recover their previous losses. They will become rekt in the future, this will make them in trouble. This is why gambling isn't for chase winning, but for fun.
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October 31, 2022, 06:59:27 PM


Exactly, how parents direct their children will mostly the path that those kids will go, most of the time the parents are the one who influenced more with their kids, with proper guidance and good lesson in life, those kids will not go to this direction, I mean the chance of proceeding to gambling activities is slim.

It's more on how you take things seriously when raising your kids, right sets of ideas and good relation with them will keep them attach to all your advice, keep them near and they will always walk to that same path you wanted them to proceed.

Some parents are really a good teacher -while the other remain in limbo what to do or what not to do.
This creates problem for both kids and the family. This also widens the gap and it remains with them for ever.
Start man to engage their children in everything they are in 2 and 1/2 let their children know everything they know so just parents are the parents that can teach their children gambling actually it is not good for her parents to involve the children in gambling knowing that gambling is a bad something which government is self kick against it so any parents that is teaching the children on how to gamble knows exactly what is their plan
Teaching up your kids on how to gamble is the most dumb thing for a parent could do into his children.We parents arent that dumb on not to know about the risk when you do make yourself get involved with gambling but there are some instances which your children had been exposed with some ads on the internet and when curiosity moves then this is where children do starts on engaging into something.
Not only limited on gambling but also in other things as well.

As guardians or parents then it would really be our responsibility on guiding our kids on the right path.It might not be able to perfect out but at least
we've done our part but just been said that monitoring cant really be 100% done.
Apparent who is teaching the children how to gamble that parents is trying to mislead and the discouraged the children for a right way of surviving in life sometimes gambling is for rich people and they use it for leisure hour but some people don't understand that that is meant for rich people for play but extending it to children that you born that have not make any way for their self that means you are encouraging them for the bad part of life it is not good to educate children gambling from the starting.
You are totally irresponsible as a parent if you dont really give out some time on telling it into your children on whats the risk when you do involved with gambling.Gambling is really just for leisure and for rich people

then it would really be that significant that they could easily deal up with these things even on that uncontrolled manner but of course when we do talk about age then it wont really be guaranteing out that you could able to handle yourself well in this regards.

If you do really like for your children to go in the right path, then everything should really be in controlled manner and being aware on how things work.
So that they do know on how to interact with these kind of activities.
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Exactly, how parents direct their children will mostly the path that those kids will go, most of the time the parents are the one who influenced more with their kids, with proper guidance and good lesson in life, those kids will not go to this direction, I mean the chance of proceeding to gambling activities is slim.

It's more on how you take things seriously when raising your kids, right sets of ideas and good relation with them will keep them attach to all your advice, keep them near and they will always walk to that same path you wanted them to proceed.

Some parents are really a good teacher -while the other remain in limbo what to do or what not to do.
This creates problem for both kids and the family. This also widens the gap and it remains with them for ever.
Start man to engage their children in everything they are in 2 and 1/2 let their children know everything they know so just parents are the parents that can teach their children gambling actually it is not good for her parents to involve the children in gambling knowing that gambling is a bad something which government is self kick against it so any parents that is teaching the children on how to gamble knows exactly what is their plan
Teaching up your kids on how to gamble is the most dumb thing for a parent could do into his children.We parents arent that dumb on not to know about the risk when you do make yourself get involved with gambling but there are some instances which your children had been exposed with some ads on the internet and when curiosity moves then this is where children do starts on engaging into something.
Not only limited on gambling but also in other things as well.

As guardians or parents then it would really be our responsibility on guiding our kids on the right path.It might not be able to perfect out but at least
we've done our part but just been said that monitoring cant really be 100% done.
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October 31, 2022, 05:07:47 PM
Some parents are really a good teacher -while the other remain in limbo what to do or what not to do.
This creates problem for both kids and the family. This also widens the gap and it remains with them for ever.
If you are a good parent then you will instinctively be able to guide your children in the right direction and teach them what to do or can not to do at a young age.

There must be a reason on why kids rebel and won't obey their parents. It could be because their parents have done something bad in the past or like you said they are busy and they lack of time or attention for their kids but not all kids are going to remain like that forever. If parents learn to regret and admit their past mistakes then kids can too.
if your child sees you gambling then they gamble and you forbid it then you are a selfish parent, every child needs guidance and rebellion usually occurs because they feel they are being treated unfairly, fix yourself first as a parent, then rebellion from your child - you will not receive it.
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October 31, 2022, 03:19:48 PM

There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Relationships can be so overrated and so disappointing - sometime parent don't know how to treat their children.
Most of the kids dont make friends with their parents. And Parents are busy in their routine. So they ignore them - that is how the circle moves.
There must be a reason on why kids rebel and won't obey their parents. It could be because their parents have done something bad in the past or like you said they are busy and they lack of time or attention for their kids but not all kids are going to remain like that forever. If parents learn to regret and admit their past mistakes then kids can too. They will realize soon that their actions are wrong and they will go back to their family and now serve their family better.

This sounds like a happy ending but it doesn't mean that we will follow it as a parent. It would still be better if we are responsible for our kids or to our actions as early as possible.
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October 31, 2022, 11:54:55 AM
There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Parents should be the first teacher to guide the kids to be a better person. The kids can be easily influence on the kind of environment, the people around them and what they see as they grow up. Hence if the parents are a gambler and exposing their kids to this activity, the kid might think it's normal and will used to it. That's why the kind of person your kids will be are depending on what kind of parents you are. Kids will first learn at home thus we must guide them and don't let them see the activities that are not apporopriate for them and only meant for adult.
I agree with what @lienfaye said because if parents can guide their kids well, their kids won't try anything they shouldn't or shouldn't do. Providing proper and good guidance, their children will grow up well and not be interested in gambling. And even though their environment is diverse, their children can take care of themselves well too. Children are like white papers that can be anything, depending on how their parents can guide them. And it will all be the duty of parents to be able to teach their children properly.


Exactly, how parents direct their children will mostly the path that those kids will go, most of the time the parents are the one who influenced more with their kids, with proper guidance and good lesson in life, those kids will not go to this direction, I mean the chance of proceeding to gambling activities is slim.

It's more on how you take things seriously when raising your kids, right sets of ideas and good relation with them will keep them attach to all your advice, keep them near and they will always walk to that same path you wanted them to proceed.
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October 31, 2022, 11:11:14 AM

Gambling is not bad just that people plays it in a bad way. Like they normally say too much of everything is not good , this is the same thing with gamble, too much of it is not good it runs people  down. Gambling is for entertainment,  if people can play it in a decent way and follow the rules I don't see it to be a bad thing.
That's true. Gambling should just be seen as for entertainment only. Gamblers or those that wants to try gambling should set themselves that gambling is just like this, for entertainment... and do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose what you are staking. Only use your extra funds if you are going to play. Otherwise, the experience can be really hurtful and can impact your living in a negative way.
People are more interested in gambling because there is an easy way to lose or gain money. Here we say that gambling should be used as recreation. In this theory how much faith we have? We mostly use it for source of income. Which should never happen. Due to which it is seen that there are many gamblers who have to deposit day night. They could never control themselves in gambling.
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October 30, 2022, 04:45:29 PM

Gambling is not bad just that people plays it in a bad way. Like they normally say too much of everything is not good , this is the same thing with gamble, too much of it is not good it runs people  down. Gambling is for entertainment,  if people can play it in a decent way and follow the rules I don't see it to be a bad thing.
That's true. Gambling should just be seen as for entertainment only. Gamblers or those that wants to try gambling should set themselves that gambling is just like this, for entertainment... and do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose what you are staking. Only use your extra funds if you are going to play. Otherwise, the experience can be really hurtful and can impact your living in a negative way.
You wouldnt really be thinking yourself on losing that much since you are depending on your parents money and been using it basing up on the situation stated on OP.As a children of said millionaire or known person

then its likely that you would really be having no problems when it comes to spending and yes, gambling is for leisure but for those who do have that capability on spending more would really be definitely looking the other
side of things which they would really be just tolerating that thing not only on gambling addiction but also into alcohol or even engaging into girls or something correlated
which this is the result if you do raise up your kids on a manner which funds or financial aspect isnt on moderated.
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October 30, 2022, 10:09:35 AM

Gambling is not bad just that people plays it in a bad way. Like they normally say too much of everything is not good , this is the same thing with gamble, too much of it is not good it runs people  down. Gambling is for entertainment,  if people can play it in a decent way and follow the rules I don't see it to be a bad thing.
That's true. Gambling should just be seen as for entertainment only. Gamblers or those that wants to try gambling should set themselves that gambling is just like this, for entertainment... and do not gamble if you cannot afford to lose what you are staking. Only use your extra funds if you are going to play. Otherwise, the experience can be really hurtful and can impact your living in a negative way.
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October 30, 2022, 04:25:53 AM
There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Parents should be the first teacher to guide the kids to be a better person. The kids can be easily influence on the kind of environment, the people around them and what they see as they grow up. Hence if the parents are a gambler and exposing their kids to this activity, the kid might think it's normal and will used to it. That's why the kind of person your kids will be are depending on what kind of parents you are. Kids will first learn at home thus we must guide them and don't let them see the activities that are not apporopriate for them and only meant for adult.
I agree with what @lienfaye said because if parents can guide their kids well, their kids won't try anything they shouldn't or shouldn't do. Providing proper and good guidance, their children will grow up well and not be interested in gambling. And even though their environment is diverse, their children can take care of themselves well too. Children are like white papers that can be anything, depending on how their parents can guide them. And it will all be the duty of parents to be able to teach their children properly.
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October 30, 2022, 12:10:16 AM
There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Parents should be the first teacher to guide the kids to be a better person. The kids can be easily influence on the kind of environment, the people around them and what they see as they grow up. Hence if the parents are a gambler and exposing their kids to this activity, the kid might think it's normal and will used to it. That's why the kind of person your kids will be are depending on what kind of parents you are. Kids will first learn at home thus we must guide them and don't let them see the activities that are not apporopriate for them and only meant for adult.
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October 29, 2022, 11:20:48 PM

There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Relationships can be so overrated and so disappointing - sometime parent don't know how to treat their children.
Most of the kids dont make friends with their parents. And Parents are busy in their routine. So they ignore them - that is how the circle moves.

What happens is that when it comes to almost any knowledge we depend on receiving formal instruction about what it is expected out of us and what it is the right way to do things, when it comes to relationships we simply expect that people will learn on their own without any guidance at all, and while some do there are many people that do not, this is what causes parents to be almost strangers to their kids and eventually have almost no influence when it comes to keeping them away from gambling.
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October 29, 2022, 05:06:44 PM
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When someone first starts gambling he doesn't think that he will fall into a big addiction. Then he goes there to get an experience. And to get extra pleasure they start playing extra gambling and thus he falls into a big addiction.  But it mostly occurs in young people.  And if a child sees his parent gambling, he tends to gamble more . So parents should be careful first then their children will be careful
What did you mean the parents should be careful first? it mean the parents shouldn't gamble at all? gambling is supposed to be fun and not for chasing money. Children or young people need to be teach and learn about money management and both disadvantage and advantage about gambling. This will make them to know what's the reason to gamble and when it's a right time/situation to gamble.
By careful I mean every father should gamble carefully. His gambling should not be revealed at least to his child because if a child comes to know that his father gambles then that child will follow his father and start gambling himself.  It is called inheritance. I'm not saying that no parents should ever gamble
If any member of a family is gambling then the chances of young children of that family getting involved in gambling is also high. In this case, the parents of the family must take responsibility so that the minor does not get involved in gambling. Additionally, various casino sites currently do not allow minors.
This is because gambling simply cannot be considered an acceptable permissible activity and for adults it is also only acceptable to some extent. The statistics issued from research and studies in the field of psychology tell us that a large percentage of gambling addicts have inherited this activity from one of the parents (usually the father) and one of the family members (an older brother or uncle). On this basis, gambling, like other bad habits (drinking and smoking), should not be undertaken openly in front of children until they have passed the period of adolescence and reached the age of maturity.
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October 29, 2022, 04:49:42 PM

There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
Relationships can be so overrated and so disappointing - sometime parent don't know how to treat their children.
Most of the kids dont make friends with their parents. And Parents are busy in their routine. So they ignore them - that is how the circle moves.

Or simply we could say that there's no such thing about perfect family on which you could really see some who arent really that on a rightful on how handling and treating up family members or specially into their kids.

Same goes into those kids into their parents where even respect isnt something that you could see.Its actually depending on parenting because it all starts with that.If these things arent been applied nor handled

well since from the start or when your children is still small then you would really be able to see those significances or effects on the time that they grown up.
If you've raised up them well on a good manner where everything should be in control or something that things should be on moderation then you could make out some
comparison into those children who havent been raised up that well.
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October 29, 2022, 12:03:04 PM

Gambling isn't drugs, both of them are different. People are use drugs because they want to escape from the reality for a while or don't want to be tired if they have so many activities to do, while gambling is the purpose is to get fun, but there's many people only to chase winning and make them become addicts. How you can sure your children wouldn't drugs even though you're already gave him good advice? you can't know what your children will do after he get older and especially he met a toxic friend.
I don't how weird comparison we can make like seriously drugs and gambling can be same? Based on addiction we can't make this useless comparison because drugs can finish your life and cause damage to your health even if you take them once and gambling is for entertainment purposes from which you can have chance of winning but what does drugs offer in return? Your life shortening? They are entirely different things and drugs is worst scenario in which you should ever fall and avoid it completely in my opinion.
there is one thing for sure. - parent would not teach kids anything that would destroy their live. But on the other hand they would portray a different picture in front of them  - the bad home environment can be one of the reasons they can choose a different and difficult track for their life.

There a different thing how do the parents will let their children grow up that's the reason there's guidance barely needed to upon growing up by the child and seeing that this kind of thing is normal in playing gambling they think it is just okay that's the reason why some of them getting addicted because it is normal thing to them because they see already in their parents activity, if you are responsible parent still it is good to let them know your child what is wrong and right so they prevent getting the same scenario as you that part of gambling habit.
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October 29, 2022, 06:30:53 AM
Gambling is a very serious addiction. Those who have indulged in this addiction have never been able to improve their family. Pushed into ruin in their own lives. I have met many people who once had a lot of money but today they are completely destitute due to their bad gambling habit. There is no capital left to go on. I will always give good advice to our children to never indulge in these drugs.  Because all this gambling is completely bad and vice is an addiction.Giving them a good future and a good life is the responsibility of every parent.
No matter what kind of addiction you have, whether it is gambling or drugs, both can be controlled if you are willing to do so.

I have met many people who were addicted to drugs but after a time when they realize what they are doing is, wrong they started to control themselves and quit it.

Similarly, a friend of mine was very addicted to gambling (sports betting), but when his father passed away, he realized his responsibilities, and he reduced his gambling activities. And started to support his family financially by doing a job.

So I disagree with "Those who have indulged in this addiction have never been able to improve their family."
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