Maybe what you mean is that everyone has to work hard, I agree with that. because having a job and having a clear income is of course everyone's desire because they also have their own desires about the things they want to have, maybe it's a gadget or vehicle or other asset. By having a desire like that, of course we have to work hard to be able to get a job and income. because in my opinion, when you grow up, it's not the time to beg your parents, let alone ask for things that are only to meet your temporary needs. when we have a job and a clear income of course we can buy what we want, if we already have a job and an income then we can buy what we want, of course with the money generated by our own sweat. That's not a problem because there's no harm in it because in my opinion that includes pampering yourself, of course we should occasionally be able to pamper ourselves by buying what we want or going on holiday to the place we really want. skills that we have to deepen find out where our skills are, that's what has to be done, even though there are people who work but don't match the skills they have, but because of the financial situation that needs to be fixed, we should be able to adapt to the job we already have. even if it is not in line with the skills you have.