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The valuable message that can be taken from my friend above is never take risks to gamble to pay off your debts, the pressure is very big, the chance is very small that you can pay off your debts, often you end up losing even more and losing your money. look for loans, sell your valuables or look for part-time work to pay off your debts, is a good way rather than playing the small money you have in gambling
We agree with what you said, in fact if gambling is used to find an instant way to get money quickly. especially with the aim of paying off debt, the consequences can have a big impact. one of them, as you said in this thread. instead of doubling your money and getting winnings to cover or meet your needs, the result is that the gambling we do usually doesn't meet expectations. If we are lucky and win a gambling session with a large reward, then that is a blessing. or, we win and are destined to win that victory. but if it is the opposite, our problem will not be resolved, but the problem will actually expand and get bigger. like some of the points you mentioned, in the end we will try to look for loans here and there and how to try to get money. unfortunately, instead of covering previous debts, they ended up gambling again to chase losses. Cases like this often occur in our social environment. so, it's not a foreign problem for me personally.
One of the keys to solving the problem is, as you said looking for part time work. or, get a little creative to bring in money without having to risk it at the gambling table. referring to my experience, when our emotional situation is not in a pleasant condition, we are in debt and so on. then gambling, usually does not answer our needs. in fact, we don't get any pleasure from the gambling sessions we do. however, if we are in an exciting situation, the gambling we do is often the opposite. hit after good hit during a betting session, often according to our happy mood. although in reality, it's not always that specific.