Reserved for my opinion on this. I don't want to affect your opinion yet and I am not sure that my opinion is mature enough yet.
Topic: psychological aspect of human behaviour related to sex - page 2. (Read 207 times)
Once upon a time, there were a married couple, lets call them Alice and Frank. There were another woman in this story, Marry, and she was a very good friend of Alice.
Alice wasn't very happy in her relationship with Frank and one day she started to cheating Frank with Peter. Marry knew about Alice's new relationship and didn't agree with it, but she supported her and never condemned Alice. Alice's marriage with Frank cannot hold forever in these conditions and they get divorced and there were no obstacles in the relationship of Alice and Peter anymore and they started to live happily together.
Two or three years passed. Marry started to build a friendship with Frank (with Alice knowledge about it) and (as expected) this friendship outgrew to love affair. Marry think that she feel something to Frank, but she has very bad experience with her past marriage and she didn't really live with him - so far it is just about friendship and sex.
Alice do not consider herself as jealous. She consider herself as free spirit person. We cannot say she is a part of some neopagan religion, but let say she has close to alternative lifestyle (without any pejorative meaning). But these matter is enough to her. Alice stopped to like it. According to her opinion, friends (two women) cannot do such a thing each other. Even after years she consider this as a betrayal of friendship with Marry. In her mind it is unacceptable to Marry (her best friend) have sex with Frank (her ex). Now it looks like it is over of Alice's and Marry's friendship.
Sorry for my bad english, I know some verbal twists are little bit chunky and not very elegant. I consider this as very interesting story. The most interesting is Alice's behaviour and it's psychological aspects. I am asking myself these questions:
What do you think about Alice? What do you think about Frank and Marry? What do you think about sex taboo and its negative consequences?
Alice wasn't very happy in her relationship with Frank and one day she started to cheating Frank with Peter. Marry knew about Alice's new relationship and didn't agree with it, but she supported her and never condemned Alice. Alice's marriage with Frank cannot hold forever in these conditions and they get divorced and there were no obstacles in the relationship of Alice and Peter anymore and they started to live happily together.
Two or three years passed. Marry started to build a friendship with Frank (with Alice knowledge about it) and (as expected) this friendship outgrew to love affair. Marry think that she feel something to Frank, but she has very bad experience with her past marriage and she didn't really live with him - so far it is just about friendship and sex.
Alice do not consider herself as jealous. She consider herself as free spirit person. We cannot say she is a part of some neopagan religion, but let say she has close to alternative lifestyle (without any pejorative meaning). But these matter is enough to her. Alice stopped to like it. According to her opinion, friends (two women) cannot do such a thing each other. Even after years she consider this as a betrayal of friendship with Marry. In her mind it is unacceptable to Marry (her best friend) have sex with Frank (her ex). Now it looks like it is over of Alice's and Marry's friendship.
Sorry for my bad english, I know some verbal twists are little bit chunky and not very elegant. I consider this as very interesting story. The most interesting is Alice's behaviour and it's psychological aspects. I am asking myself these questions:
- Why is unacceptable to have sex with ex of your friend but it is OK to cheat your partner?
- Will it be OK that Frank will have sex with someone else (someone Alice doesn't know) or Frank cannot have sex at all?
- Why does she even care about her ex sex?
- Why she consider herself as free spirit when she has so dogmatic view to things related to sex?
- Why have whole society dogmatic view to things related to sex, why is sex so tabooed?
What do you think about Alice? What do you think about Frank and Marry? What do you think about sex taboo and its negative consequences?
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