merit cycling (there's a Fox something club too)
I don't think that exclusive club is all about what you think it is--and I do hope you don't think our coven is sending merits back and forth to each other, because that isn't the case at all. If there was a group of members doing that, I'm not even sure it'd be breaking any rules (though I have no doubt that they'd be publicly called out for merit abuse, and rightfully so).
Many members here feel there is no need for some of the celebratory posts that people come up with, the idea is that some other members' had done it before and received merits, so others want to try out their luck with that
I'm one of those members who thinks the self-congratulatory threads have an icky feeling to them at best, and some of them are definite attempts to earn merits. However, I don't think anyone ought to be prevented from making a thread like that if they want to.
With respect to whether OP's post was a merit phishing expedition, that would depend on what was written I think.
Aside from merit fishing, spam, low-value, and garbage posts, what other accusations were leveled against other members of this forum?
Jesus, that could be a hundred page thread of its own. The forum right now is tame in comparison to, say, 2018-19, when it was nonstop mudslinging from multiple cliques and one-on-one matches as well. Some people are quick to accuse others of wrongdoing, but it's kind of always been that way since I've been here. I knew before I registered that this was no forum for pussies.
How do you create topics that you feel matter to you without making it seem as if you are merit fishing?
99% of what people would consider merit phishing threads are started by members who haven't been here long, are already advertising something in their signature or avatar space, and just come across as wanting merits so they can rank up and make more money. A lot of the time, they write very long posts with little substance and with much repetition, probably thinking that members with merits to give will be impressed by the sheer length of their post.
As the saying goes, it's like pornography: it's hard to define precisely but you know it when you see it.