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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.

I agree, they are usually coming back to gambling because they wanted to recover what they have loss but they didn't know that the consequences are getting worst. and that was the problem of most gamblers and yes it has a negative effect on their life which usually making them addicted to gambling.
in fact i have seen so many people who have stopped gambling and then started it again and agin,  they have one thing in their mind thatthey can this time make good money in gambling but for every time they do not succeeded.
That's true, all gamblers that stop playing gambling are coming back because they just want to try their luck, all of us even me wants to win in gambling. Who wants to lose? But of course all of us are experiencing losing.
sr. member
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So true . the average person when it get much profit he will get bitcoin increasingly greedy for more and eventually he'll miss out on the same day.

And that makes people addicted to gambling is when she last experienced a profit and lost it all. he would return the next day to gamble. This is because a person addicted to gambling

And if that gets worst his family will be affected with it. When greediness is always working to him that will make a bad result to his family for real. Since he is greedy and addicted with bitcoin, no matter what happens he is going to think about the profit that he can possibly get with gambling and he will set his family to be the least priority and make gambling as first priority.
Yes, usually gambling problems are just not affecting a gambler but his family too. Out of addictions gamblers are failing to fulfill their commitments and responsibilities to their family members.
Quitting gambling will be possible only with the family members and also only for family members. At the same time it is a responsibility of a family to help a gambler to quit gambling.
yes and specially a worst effected gambler can effect your all family members.
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.

I agree, they are usually coming back to gambling because they wanted to recover what they have loss but they didn't know that the consequences are getting worst. and that was the problem of most gamblers and yes it has a negative effect on their life which usually making them addicted to gambling.
in fact i have seen so many people who have stopped gambling and then started it again and agin,  they have one thing in their mind thatthey can this time make good money in gambling but for every time they do not succeeded.
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
Always know our limitations and if you have already a family, be responsible enough with your children and also with your wife/husband. They are more important than gambling because gambling or having fun will just take for a while, while family is always there and always in your side through our ups and downs.
legendary
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don't blame the game for your choices. i understand what you're saying but gambling can be pretty fun if you dont put all your money on it.
if you're losing more than you can, you're are addicted and the problem is your addiction not the game.

I agree but if you look at the system of gambling, it is made like a trap that whoever enters in it will have a difficulty to exit that trap.  This is a business model that have an almost perfect design to lure people and make this people to stick to them.  By stimulating their hormones in the brain.  Another reason of argument is that, if the gambling is not there, there will be no one get addicted.  Even if gambling is just a game the way, intent and goal of its operation is obvious.  Make people hook to them.  Gambling Casinos is operating with these malicious intent and that is what makes it bad.

I don't think there is a malicious intent in gambling. Yes it is addictive, in it's nature, and that just presented a business opportunity for casinos.
They don't need to be evil, they just offer their services, and make gambling easy. A lot of them actually offer options for a restrictive gambling control, that they normally call responsible gambling. The thing is, people will gamble anyway, they've done it for decades, so they would do it even if casinos didn't offered gambling opportunities.

Probably not all, but what about their promo's, bonuses, reward system etc.  Doesn't those things encourage people to gamble more? So where is this restrictive gambling control?  They  do contradicting things. I'm not blaming Casino here, I am just citing some fact that can triggers addiction which somehow Casino is well aware and yet they do it for business sake.  
Yet at the end of the day it is still the person's choice to take the bait or not. Though many are weak against this kind of temptation.
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don't blame the game for your choices. i understand what you're saying but gambling can be pretty fun if you dont put all your money on it.
if you're losing more than you can, you're are addicted and the problem is your addiction not the game.

I agree but if you look at the system of gambling, it is made like a trap that whoever enters in it will have a difficulty to exit that trap.  This is a business model that have an almost perfect design to lure people and make this people to stick to them.  By stimulating their hormones in the brain.  Another reason of argument is that, if the gambling is not there, there will be no one get addicted.  Even if gambling is just a game the way, intent and goal of its operation is obvious.  Make people hook to them.  Gambling Casinos is operating with these malicious intent and that is what makes it bad.

I don't think there is a malicious intent in gambling. Yes it is addictive, in it's nature, and that just presented a business opportunity for casinos.
They don't need to be evil, they just offer their services, and make gambling easy. A lot of them actually offer options for a restrictive gambling control, that they normally call responsible gambling. The thing is, people will gamble anyway, they've done it for decades, so they would do it even if casinos didn't offered gambling opportunities.
sr. member
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don't blame the game for your choices. i understand what you're saying but gambling can be pretty fun if you dont put all your money on it.
if you're losing more than you can, you're are addicted and the problem is your addiction not the game.
people do get greedy to make more money and that is when they become addicted and it will have an impact in your life which cannot be altered if you are spending money without any control.
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There some thing which was right and correct but also if person is addicted, this is psychological problems. In this situation people can't think about their loved ones and even about theirself. After big looses many people cries and says how good it would be if they saved that money. If person is addicted and looses and looses, than to fix this situation is stopping immediately. But if everything is ok, than gamble with small money and have a fun.
legendary
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don't blame the game for your choices. i understand what you're saying but gambling can be pretty fun if you dont put all your money on it.
if you're losing more than you can, you're are addicted and the problem is your addiction not the game.

I agree but if you look at the system of gambling, it is made like a trap that whoever enters in it will have a difficulty to exit that trap.  This is a business model that have an almost perfect design to lure people and make this people to stick to them.  By stimulating their hormones in the brain.  Another reason of argument is that, if the gambling is not there, there will be no one get addicted.  Even if gambling is just a game the way, intent and goal of its operation is obvious.  Make people hook to them.  Gambling Casinos is operating with these malicious intent and that is what makes it bad.
sr. member
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don't blame the game for your choices. i understand what you're saying but gambling can be pretty fun if you dont put all your money on it.
if you're losing more than you can, you're are addicted and the problem is your addiction not the game.
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So true . the average person when it get much profit he will get bitcoin increasingly greedy for more and eventually he'll miss out on the same day.

And that makes people addicted to gambling is when she last experienced a profit and lost it all. he would return the next day to gamble. This is because a person addicted to gambling

And if that gets worst his family will be affected with it. When greediness is always working to him that will make a bad result to his family for real. Since he is greedy and addicted with bitcoin, no matter what happens he is going to think about the profit that he can possibly get with gambling and he will set his family to be the least priority and make gambling as first priority.
Yes, usually gambling problems are just not affecting a gambler but his family too. Out of addictions gamblers are failing to fulfill their commitments and responsibilities to their family members.
Quitting gambling will be possible only with the family members and also only for family members. At the same time it is a responsibility of a family to help a gambler to quit gambling.
I think if a person s gambling only for some time of the day and do not play the whole day and do not invest all of his money in gambling then he is not destroying his family but he is only taking some entertainment after his boring day and he can manage the time and money for his family.
legendary
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So true . the average person when it get much profit he will get bitcoin increasingly greedy for more and eventually he'll miss out on the same day.

And that makes people addicted to gambling is when she last experienced a profit and lost it all. he would return the next day to gamble. This is because a person addicted to gambling

And if that gets worst his family will be affected with it. When greediness is always working to him that will make a bad result to his family for real. Since he is greedy and addicted with bitcoin, no matter what happens he is going to think about the profit that he can possibly get with gambling and he will set his family to be the least priority and make gambling as first priority.
Yes, usually gambling problems are just not affecting a gambler but his family too. Out of addictions gamblers are failing to fulfill their commitments and responsibilities to their family members.
Quitting gambling will be possible only with the family members and also only for family members. At the same time it is a responsibility of a family to help a gambler to quit gambling.
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So true . the average person when it get much profit he will get bitcoin increasingly greedy for more and eventually he'll miss out on the same day.

And that makes people addicted to gambling is when she last experienced a profit and lost it all. he would return the next day to gamble. This is because a person addicted to gambling

And if that gets worst his family will be affected with it. When greediness is always working to him that will make a bad result to his family for real. Since he is greedy and addicted with bitcoin, no matter what happens he is going to think about the profit that he can possibly get with gambling and he will set his family to be the least priority and make gambling as first priority.
legendary
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.

I agree, they are usually coming back to gambling because they wanted to recover what they have loss but they didn't know that the consequences are getting worst. and that was the problem of most gamblers and yes it has a negative effect on their life which usually making them addicted to gambling.

It is true, btw, i have stumbled an article, it is quite a story, actually a good story for those who chase losses and how bad it is to a person, this story is about a guy who think of stopping but the urge of getting the money he lost ends up losing more.  This may give us a lesson and even a good advice on how we must face losses in gambling.

Here is the article: Chasing losses, lured into gambling, relapse, choices
sr. member
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.

I agree, they are usually coming back to gambling because they wanted to recover what they have loss but they didn't know that the consequences are getting worst. and that was the problem of most gamblers and yes it has a negative effect on their life which usually making them addicted to gambling.
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.
Yeah there are people who are so into gambling already that losing all the time would be a reason to continue gambling instead of quitting, basically because it's in their system already and the urge to get back the losses has more weight that logic. Having a more personal motivation like your loved ones is better although the process is a lot more challenging.
legendary
Activity: 2954
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If you are a gambling addict with no luck and always lose when make a bet then it is very nice decision if you quit from it before you lose everything what you have  Grin
I think its much better for a person to loose all the time then to win even occasionally because loosing makes you feel bad why you gambled and winning makes you gamble again quickly and getting some wins and some losses is worst since you are in dilemma whether its good or not for you.

But the problem lies on "people does not learn".  They will gamble again worst is, this time they want to take revenge LOL, they want to win back what is lost and that makes the scenario worst.  Chasing losses is proven to have a negative effect in persons life.  Instead of walking away with minimal losses, chasing your losses can make you lose more.
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Some of what you say here is true but that doesnt mean gambling will ruin your life. If you have an addictive personality and cannot control when to stop gambling, then yes you prob shouldnt gamble. If you have self control and just wanna toss a few dollars around here n there then youll be fine.



Yes, that's right. We heard a lot of stories how gambling ruined somebody's life. And that is just horrible. but I think everything depends from concrete person. For example my boyfriend also likes poker and slot machines games (he plays it online), but we never had any big problem if he looses. He is playing with bitcoin only that he gets from commenting. So we never loose money from our salaries or something like that.
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Hi everyone, want to share my story here, I was once a gambler that I can gamble big amount of money in one day, I have this thinking that maybe I can make a living off gambling and get rich. I won big before but I lost back on the other day too.

And once you lost, you will try to recover back your lost amount and from there, the snowball just keep rolling, and you find yourself in bad mood everyday as you will keep on depositing all your savings and always hoping to recover back your loss. I have seen too many people losing big amount of money in Bitcoin Gambling.

Think for your family, your parents, your loved ones, your wife or kids, they love you, do not let gambling ruin your life, many people are always thinking they will win big from gambling and get rich in one night.

It happens, but out of 10000 people, maybe just 1 person are that lucky to really win a huge amount of money for him to retire.

Human concept always look at the lucky guy and envy him and thinking they will be the next him, but out of 10000 people, 9999 people have lost big, so why do you want to hurt yourself and your loved ones.

I am not trying to change people mind here, I just hope I can help some people that are addicted to gambling.

Life is good and wonderful, do not get yourself stuck in front of the pc everyday rolling dice and even you win big today, you will still lose back in other day, money that come fast go away fast too.

Don't let gambling ruin your life, many of you are still young and have a good future ahead. That's all Cheesy



well, in my opinion it will be your choice if you will let gambling ruin yourself but actually it is not gambling that ruins your entire life but the blame has to be on you because you have taken it seriously and you have expected that gambling could be a good way to get rich if only you are on a saner mind then you will never gamble a big amount when you also know that you are on a risky situation if you are going to do that. but you still have a good advice to other people anyway but before helping other people you need to help yourself first.
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Some of what you say here is true but that doesnt mean gambling will ruin your life. If you have an addictive personality and cannot control when to stop gambling, then yes you prob shouldnt gamble. If you have self control and just wanna toss a few dollars around here n there then youll be fine.


That is certainly true, but most people don't intend to cultivate a gambling problem.   It just happens, and no one ever thinks they can get addicted.  Everyone thinks they can stop before that happens, before they cross the line.

Props to people who actually do quit.  It's not easy.
The better solution near to me is that every person start gambling thinking that they can control themselves and will not lose so for continuing that aim they have to make a schedule for themselves and before starting gambling they have to promise to themselves that they will strictly follow their schedule so in that schedule they have to keep an affordable amount to spend and a limited time to play.
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