The first reason why you can never be rich is too much responsibilities, carrying family problems on your head which we all know family problems are always around the corners and can't be totally eliminated. The best help to offer family is to put yourself in a better financial position, don't struggle to help family, struggle to put yourself in a better financial position then take away your from dependency. How do you take them away from dependency? If you have a company or business you are running or a connection, you can connect your family members to your friends let them work for them so that they can earn their own money or you have a business you are running, they can work for you to earn their own money. As long as their is still dependency they will continue to depend on you and demand from you.
No man, this doesn't sound right, it's like you are trying to run away from family responsibility. Whether you are a married or married to or just a single person who live alone, you have a family to look up to but there should be a limitation to this, just because you're are a bread winner or perhaps the only person who the family depends on doesn't mean you will put every responsibility on your head, you have to take the necessary ones and ignore the rest, they should take of the rest.
Would you abandon your family when they are sick because you are looking for money to become rich, will you abandon them when they are hungry; just provide them with the basic requirement of a responsible person and face your life after that. This is why you people who take the responsibilities of the families hardly reveal what they earned because doing, they will always bring all the problems to you as they know what you are worth and the pay check you get after every 30 days.
The second reason why you can never become rich is not knowing how to use money. There are several ways money can be use : spending, savings, and investing. Many of us already know about spending and even when we spend we spend on things that are not really needed but just to impress people who don't care about you.
Buying liabilities, things that doesn't have value five years from now. Many save but even when money is saved, it is done to spend and not to invest and the only way to become rich is to invest and not by savings. So , invest in assets and not liabilities.
Knowing the difference between what you need and what you want is very important, as the right time to do and the wrong time to say no, but then because you are trying to invest in business doesn't mean you shouldn't take care of yourself, you need to stay healthy, eat a good meal, hangout and have time with others because how I understand the use of been trying to be a wealthy person and I cannot have that my life, never! I will live it to the fullest but it's going to be in a responsible manner.