Or we accidentally find this videos, we are curious and then we try to find it out. It's not that we are addicted or not, maybe it's just to watch it and see how it goes. Maybe we can compare our experience with gambling and compare. Nevertheless, this kind of feel good stories and just like that, to refresh us and remind us gamblers the dangers of being addicted and what could happen to us. So don't take it personally if you think that you are not a addicted gambler (although I would argue that anyone here will not admit their addiction). But in any case, just take their life experience with gambling and at the end they were able to get out of it, and it's a happy ending.
I sometimes watch videos and interviews with addicted gamblers who tell their journey in gambling and their worst and worst stories. They answer questions such as their biggest losses, how they played for the first time and how much debt they owe to friends, relatives and neighbors. These videos allow me to learn many stories and understand exactly what not to do based on the mistakes of others. Still, we must learn from the mistakes of others for our own development. Of course, some of them were able to recover from losses and never bet irresponsibly again. And others couldn’t help themselves and continue to play until all the available money runs out, I don’t even understand what they are hoping for, is it really a jackpot that will hit them one day, thanks to which they will pay off all their debts.
For what I have watched on those documentaries, it is not that those that keep gambling, even after many attempts to stop, are expecting to get a big win to recover some or all the money they lost, what happens is they cannot stop themselves to gamble, even when they know it is harmful to them, basically their priorities are so skewed that no matter what anyone may say to them, they do not want to stop, and when a person is in that state then no matter what their loved ones do to help them, it will never be enough.
Indeed, if this player understood that no one is able to influence his destiny like himself, then he would probably play less and concentrate on building and improving his life. I understand that this is very difficult, I even went through this myself when I lost all my money set aside for a vacation, but I have never borrowed from anyone. My conscience simply did not allow me to do this. If I borrowed money from someone, it would potentially lead to me not being able to repay these debts without being able to do so.
Gambling addiction is a dreaded sickness, and all gamblers should find a means of staying clear from such a chronic problem. Hence, even the non-addict should take such videos serious and not think that they're safe. Anybody can become a victim, in just a loss of self control. Hence learning from the mistakes shown in the video is crucial for gamblers. It helps in identifying the problems once the player is gambling. Experience teaches gamblers not to get addicted. If a player has seen an addict undergo severe pains and suffering, he wouldn't hesitate on following some precautionary strategies able to put him away from addiction. The goal remains staying responsible.
Multiple information has been passed online about the problems addicts go through, yet we see new cases occurring. Hence, responsible gambling should be worn as a clothe against the coldness of addiction. Those who gambled on their funds away, lost control and wasn't able to hurt the session. They are chasing loss, motive, earning back lost money. That's almost impossible on a single session. They fail to understand that they've got another day to play again. It's not a one-day course. Contrary to such belief, leads to a downward course. No player made it big in just one day of gambling, it takes multiple weeks of consistency. Although, nobody knows what will happen, but, theoretically from examples, most players who won big didn't attain it on their first day of gambling.
This is the main trap of self-confident people who are new to the game, they think that they are not as weak as addicted players, and this is what will punish them later.
I just watched a video where a young mother with 2 children tells her story about losses and debts, it is very difficult, but I force myself to watch it so that I know what happens if you cross the line.