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We should thank to God everyday or being alive and healthy. But we need to live our days just like it's our last day too.

I guess the secret to happiness is to be content with what you have in life.

Learn to appreciate on what you have. learn how to respect. Love one another. No hatred. Learn how to forgive and forget. Always pray to God.

Don't live for people, live for yourself and u will find the happiness if you couldn't find happiness, it will find u

Having a tiny family will help you find out this secret. Cheesy

To be Happy is to love yourself first. How can you spreed happiness if you are not happy! Family if happiness. God is happiness. Life is happiness. Just be you and you will be happy!

A mix of love, money. Never trapped from the past and never afraid of the future.

Don't Worry, Be Happy
(c) Bobby McFerrin.

Have a low expectation so you'll easily get contented.

A mix of Love, money, Love and enough money to live.

For me the secret of happiness is love, if you love everyone you will be happy, if you love the things you do you will happy. Be true to yourself.

       Maintaining close relationships between the two parties who are closely related to their family, friends or community tend to be happier and healthier, compared to their less well-connected counterparts,
      Maintain the quality of harmonious relationships within the family
      As well as maintaining a stable and supportive Marriage Having social relationships with others is not only good for mental health. However, it also prevents a decrease in mental condition. Hopefully useful ...

Hello Mohsin,

clearly I'd say it is the power of perspective. It depends on how you interpret your personal situation, meaning what you focus on.

Let me explain:
Let's assume one is a millionaire.

Scenario a)
The person solely focuses on money and networth, since this is, according to his/her beliefs, what makes people superior, which ultimately is his/her goal - superiority.
Then this person will for sure be happy, at least for a time, then perspective and focus may change and the situation might have to be reevaluated.

Scenario b)
The millionaire focuses on relationships and bonds with other individuals (could even be the person from scenario a) after a while and a shift in focus). Therefore money alone is not what satisfies his request for healthy relationships. Hence, - if he has a bad reputation, shitty friends or no friends at all- he will not be happy, despite having a million $.

Luckily, a shift in focus can be done willingly. But most of the time occurs unconsciously.
You see, happiness is a matter of interpretation of the circumstances. For me it helps to consciously look at (=focus) what I have in life (family, friends, love of my life) - which is a great base to start conquering your goals, as a certain "base happiness" is set, boosting your confidence.
However, would I solely focus on the goals I want to achieve, without taking into account what incredible goods I already have, it would result in me being unhappy, as I usually fail in the first attempt of achieving my goals and worst of all: I'd likely neglect the ones I have and and am greatful for, as there would be no room for them in my focus, ultimately resulting in loosing them. That loss could later result in unhappiness, as focus could shift to loneliness, which I would then have to experience.

I hope this superficial answer gets the point accross a little bit, although I might have drifted off a little.
There are great books about this topic.

Best wishes
 

Secret of Happiness is many ways, have a lot of money, get a love, have many friends, have a good familys, and many more

If you can overcome some obstacles in your life you would get happy.

I think you just need be with the people you love but one of the most important thing today will be having alot of money or being financially free but that will not happen very quickly.

Money is less important than money

you should just enjoy every moment of your life

Don't except anything from anybody to avoid disappointment and always accept what you cannot change

the secret of happiness in my opinion is not doing strange things in life. make life as simple as possible and not think hard. and in my opinion I prefer love over money.