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Topic: Self-hate is a disease (Read 380 times)
I think it will be like in the movies that technology improves our daily lives and also there are flying cars hehehe
It is not a disease, it is a lack of motivation, lack of roots used to be the base of your life. Self-hate could become from the lack of an aim in your life too. Think about this.
I would have agreed with you if you hadn't tied it to color.
perhaps yes, it is a mental illness that needs to be eliminated for a long time and only close people can help in this
self hate always occurs when some one is suffering from depression, and if care is not properly taken, the person may start harboring suicide thought in mind
self hate shutters and close many potentials in our lives . Its a bad activity
Hate is a big disease, if you hate, don't respect yourself, there is no way others will feel differently about you.
Some of us have low self esteem and are prone to self harm due to traumu growing up.
Yes it is.
When the feeling of self-hatred and anxiety becomes too strong, there is a risk of engaging in destructive behaviours to deal with or numb the unpleasant feelings. Cutting or otherwise damaging the skin can be a way to relieve the anxiety and to punish the body as well. A person with self-hatred can get the feeling that the body needs to be purified. Eating disorders and abuse of alcohol and drugs are other ways to attack the body. It is also possible to develop suicidal thoughts.
Self-hatred and destructiveness cause a person to withdraw. Isolating oneself is a way to conceal one’s state of mind and behaviours. It is common to feel ashamed and then feel even worse because of this. Perhaps the person feels that they do not even deserve to feel happy. This can make them stop caring about, or even avoid things that would make them feel better, such as good food, good sleep, exercise and socialising with others.
When the feeling of self-hatred and anxiety becomes too strong, there is a risk of engaging in destructive behaviours to deal with or numb the unpleasant feelings. Cutting or otherwise damaging the skin can be a way to relieve the anxiety and to punish the body as well. A person with self-hatred can get the feeling that the body needs to be purified. Eating disorders and abuse of alcohol and drugs are other ways to attack the body. It is also possible to develop suicidal thoughts.
Self-hatred and destructiveness cause a person to withdraw. Isolating oneself is a way to conceal one’s state of mind and behaviours. It is common to feel ashamed and then feel even worse because of this. Perhaps the person feels that they do not even deserve to feel happy. This can make them stop caring about, or even avoid things that would make them feel better, such as good food, good sleep, exercise and socialising with others.
It is really hard to prove your thoughts. Actually, everybody tries to be the best. It has nothing to do with black or white. I agree that Self-hate is a disease. We must love and admire ourselves in order to achieve great things. It is impossible to hate our qualities and at the same time be successful. It sometimes takes time to achieve this. We are not born with self-esteem. We need to work on it. It is hard to achieve but once done, it helps us to be the best. I am sure you agree with me.
Scientifically speaking, I think self hate can't be considered as a disease. But if we would see it more clearly, then we can realize that it is somehow a disease to be considered. First is that self hate has a negative effect on us. We could be stagnant on what we are doing and/or we could be a source of another ailment that ypu can experience. Also, another is that self hate is like a disease as its cause is like a virus for a disease, as the cause of self hate is negative taughts and a like.
I guess you are referring to ethnic self-hatred. I was confused at first because I couldn't figure how a person hating himself has anything to do with black people. I have seen this happen in some cultures. I know know if it is exactly the same thing, but I find that some people always want to be together and others don't. For example, it seems like Mexicans in other countries always group together. They seem to be supportive of one another. I have noticed the same thing about Kazakh people too. It seems like wherever they are they are always together. On the other hand, I have seen some Russians that don't seem to want anything to do with other Russian when they are living abroad. They even seem to have some resentment for other Russians who are having some success.
By default our whole being is programmed for self-service, self-justification, self-protection. We can’t make any other calculation but for self-benefit based on the egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”.
Which means that we are not programmed for truth. So the real disease is lack of truth = lie to yourself and everyone else... not self-hate.
As Sarah Bowman pointed out in order for one to sense onself in a state of self-hatred the person had to go through a very negative upbringing, education, negative environment. So much so that such upbringing, education overrules our inherent operating software which is absolute “self-love”.
By default our whole being is programmed for self-service, self-justification, self-protection. We can’t make any other calculation but for self-benefit based on the egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”. Thus one needs to go through a serious trauma that can suspend this inherent operation. Of course it does not help that today’s media, marketing is making all of us feel “not good enough”, lacking in order to artificially generate “aggregate demand” to fuel consumption. Satisfied, content people do not chase after newer and newer gadgets, pleasures every day.
Restoring healthy “self-love”, contentment, confidence and aspiration for the future needs the right, mutually supportive, mutually complementing environment. Nobody can free oneself from their own prisons, personal holes they find themselves in. Thus the greatest harm ruining their lives that “self-hating” people (and others) can do to themselves in not searching for the right environment.
By default our whole being is programmed for self-service, self-justification, self-protection. We can’t make any other calculation but for self-benefit based on the egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”. Thus one needs to go through a serious trauma that can suspend this inherent operation. Of course it does not help that today’s media, marketing is making all of us feel “not good enough”, lacking in order to artificially generate “aggregate demand” to fuel consumption. Satisfied, content people do not chase after newer and newer gadgets, pleasures every day.
Restoring healthy “self-love”, contentment, confidence and aspiration for the future needs the right, mutually supportive, mutually complementing environment. Nobody can free oneself from their own prisons, personal holes they find themselves in. Thus the greatest harm ruining their lives that “self-hating” people (and others) can do to themselves in not searching for the right environment.
All people hate themselves. A few of them are honest about it. They die young. After all, science has found no good reason why the body can't repair itself in almost every instance. It's suicide, even though it takes years.
a terrible disease. I think the only way out of safe hate is by conscientious improvement of such individual involved. Humans need to start loving and appreciating themselves the way they are. The worst thing that can happen to a man is to hate himself.
Self hate is actually a disease and this disease has spread around black races. The self-hate is actually the roots cause of under development in most of the third word countries and Africa. We have to love who we are as black, we ought to love ourselves and appreciate our colour and our culture and our professionality.
hate in general is detrimental to any society. However, one of the major issues today is depression and low self esteem. Most of the time caused by their exposure. If you let your people to be ill educated and ill mannered and corrupted from their infancy, can you persecute them for the way they are? We need to instill values to our children and educate them not only in accademics but also in the things that they may or may not encounter in life and how to make choices. lead by example.
Self-hate is a disease that gradually killing one's self and one's ability to discern what really is and hinders to the acceptance that we want to achieved despite our differences and diversity. I think that other people will find it difficult to accept who we are because we, ourselves finding it more difficult to accept ourselves --- and worst, not just the difficult in loving ourselves but the increase of hate to ourselves. I think that we should gradually and constantly accepting who we are, what we are,and where we came from. We must learn how to read between the lines and turn our negative and useless thoughts into a positive and beneficial one. We must not let those kind of disease destroy us.
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