This would be safer I guess.
In my country some banks allow you to withdraw money with a temporary pin code, so you could not meet the other person at all, but you could instead give him the pin code to go and withdraw it themselves. Of course with this approach they don't get any information about you. The only problem is that you don't have an escrow.
The above option is better where you will get the money from the bank as soon as the other person transfer you the bitcoins but the second option of using a PIN to withdraw still needs to be a face to face transaction.
If you are not present on the spot, the other person will never send you the bitcoin first, as you can receive bitcoin and never send them the PIN to withdraw the cash. If anyone is willing to become Escrow in this case, then the Escrow will need to show his presence physically with person who will get money from the bank through PIN. This scenario becomes a bit complicated and also risky for the seller of the bitcoin.