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February 07, 2018, 07:57:46 PM
That's what I like online casinos for, no face to face interaction, no pressure. You can watch other people play for hours. I do enjoy sometimes watching people playing big stakes in poker. In fact I learned how to play poker by watching for free how do others play. If you possess such quality as shyness, which is a good quality btw, you definitely should stay away from online based casinos.
That's what I think when playing in an online casino. I think you have it all mixed up because if you are shy definitely you don't want to have people interaction so you would stay in an online casino site.  I also like to watch people Gamble and learn how they approach certain kinds of situations.

Yep, you can learn a lot by just watching people playing. For example, I learned how harmful the martingale strategy can be watching others betting on a dice site. And another lesson for me was when I saw a guy won 1 BTC with dice and then lost it all in several minutes thinking he can make his winnings bigger. That's how I learned that we shouldn't be too greedy.
If you do the martingale system, continuous straight losses would result in a requirement for a higher bankroll to play on. It's going to be hard to control yourself the more you win because you would feel that you can do anything. It's good to see people actually learn those kinds of stuff.
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February 07, 2018, 07:45:38 PM
I don't gamble that much but when I play i don't feel to be shy in other people ,gambling is not new in our society so my perception was there is nothing to be a shame as long as you did not harm other people. Just always control your self so you won't get addicted.
If you feel embarrassed and guilty when playing gambling or after gambling, then I suggest you stop. Why do something that does not make you happy. Gambling should make you happy and comforted, but if you expect gambling to give you a profit, then you're wrong. I do not know why you feel guilty and embarrassed, but I think you have your own reasons, whether from your neighborhood, your family, and your beliefs. If I prefer to do other things instead of gambling. Because I think there are many things more fun and profitable than gambling. For example like a side job, being a writer, and watching a movie.
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February 07, 2018, 02:13:10 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
I don't gamble that much but when I play i don't feel to be shy in other people ,gambling is not new in our society so my perception was there is nothing to be a shame as long as you did not harm other people. Just always control your self so you won't get addicted.
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February 07, 2018, 12:20:53 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy?

Yes, actually it occur to me. When i was playing with my relative i was winning and almost all of their money was into me. Suddenly i became shy taking all their money at the end of the game i gave back all their losses. They are still my relative so i wouldnt care if i gave all my winnings, if were to play with my friends or some strangers i wouldnt do it.



I feel you, I only felt ashamed every time I gathered all their money when I won the game. Maybe because they are related to us and its kinda awkward to get their money. Lesson learned, we shouldn't play with our relatives again. We should stick with friends or strangers.
why played with relatives?if they are a gambler maybe theres nothing to be ashamed of,since if you lose they will take your money too,thats why its called gambling because its a matter of win or loss of bets..and better do that next time.never play with them instead play with other people that not in ralation with you
In my opinion, it is more fun to play with those who know you or are closer to you. That way the game will not remain just a game. It becomes a part of beautiful memories. But during the game, a person should not focus on winning or trying to avoid winning but concentrate only on enjoying the game and have as much entertainment as possible. It is not very common in this technology world to have such a get together.
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February 06, 2018, 04:56:49 PM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

Shyness in gambling is not applicable because in gambling you have to be brave and strong because you will face the world with courage to win their goal in life. You need courage to be focus on your aim. Because if you're shy, your weak you can't move forward you're always a loser. You can't find what you look for. In this world you have to act like a strong person do that you can over come all what is in you. Especially when bitcoin is involve you have to focus how to get it.
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February 06, 2018, 02:04:26 PM
That's what I like online casinos for, no face to face interaction, no pressure. You can watch other people play for hours. I do enjoy sometimes watching people playing big stakes in poker. In fact I learned how to play poker by watching for free how do others play. If you possess such quality as shyness, which is a good quality btw, you definitely should stay away from online based casinos.
That's what I think when playing in an online casino. I think you have it all mixed up because if you are shy definitely you don't want to have people interaction so you would stay in an online casino site.  I also like to watch people Gamble and learn how they approach certain kinds of situations.

Yep, you can learn a lot by just watching people playing. For example, I learned how harmful the martingale strategy can be watching others betting on a dice site. And another lesson for me was when I saw a guy won 1 BTC with dice and then lost it all in several minutes thinking he can make his winnings bigger. That's how I learned that we shouldn't be too greedy.
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February 06, 2018, 11:13:02 AM
I too had a recent funny moment in real life gambling due to my shyness.
I tried to use martingale on a local roulette, I don't think the operator minded it but I was too shy to continue. Though I was wining.
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February 06, 2018, 03:36:31 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
For me i don't even care and i am not shy when i gamble, why would i, instead of shyness you have also be confident and smart or being alert when you gamble. shyness can't help you to win when you are gambling.

That feeling is normally felt when you are new in gambling. You thought all eyes are looking at you so you dont want to make mistakes because you’re afraid to be laughed at. You pretend to be good in it just to hide your shame.

Yes, you're right mate, most of the gambling entrants especially when they are shy type people can really experience that kind of situation. That's where they feel as though they are just overlooked by people inside gambling.
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February 06, 2018, 01:19:11 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
For me i don't even care and i am not shy when i gamble, why would i, instead of shyness you have also be confident and smart or being alert when you gamble. shyness can't help you to win when you are gambling.

That feeling is normally felt when you are new in gambling. You thought all eyes are looking at you so you dont want to make mistakes because you’re afraid to be laughed at. You pretend to be good in it just to hide your shame.
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February 05, 2018, 10:59:42 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?
For me i don't even care and i am not shy when i gamble, why would i, instead of shyness you have also be confident and smart or being alert when you gamble. shyness can't help you to win when you are gambling.
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February 05, 2018, 10:30:08 AM
That's what I like online casinos for, no face to face interaction, no pressure. You can watch other people play for hours. I do enjoy sometimes watching people playing big stakes in poker. In fact I learned how to play poker by watching for free how do others play. If you possess such quality as shyness, which is a good quality btw, you definitely should stay away from online based casinos.
That's what I think when playing in an online casino. I think you have it all mixed up because if you are shy definitely you don't want to have people interaction so you would stay in an online casino site.  I also like to watch people Gamble and learn how they approach certain kinds of situations.
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February 05, 2018, 10:15:55 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

That's what I like online casinos for, no face to face interaction, no pressure. You can watch other people play for hours. I do enjoy sometimes watching people playing big stakes in poker. In fact I learned how to play poker by watching for free how do others play. If you possess such quality as shyness, which is a good quality btw, you definitely should stay away from online based casinos.
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February 02, 2018, 05:54:10 AM
That guy is really amazing. I mean, how often we come across someone who cries for the loser instead of celebrating his own success. Not a common thing. Success is a tool that can be used for bragging and happiness. This is how games are. There is always a winner and a loser. If someone feels guilty after winning, then must say he should avoid playing any type of game.
Well that's how we should be in everything. Being happy and understanding to others. It's how we would understand the truth in what we are doing if we are good. I think it's best to avoid being guilty because why would you feel that way if you worked hard for it or something, right?
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February 02, 2018, 04:59:13 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy?

Yes, actually it occur to me. When i was playing with my relative i was winning and almost all of their money was into me. Suddenly i became shy taking all their money at the end of the game i gave back all their losses. They are still my relative so i wouldnt care if i gave all my winnings, if were to play with my friends or some strangers i wouldnt do it.



I feel you, I only felt ashamed every time I gathered all their money when I won the game. Maybe because they are related to us and its kinda awkward to get their money. Lesson learned, we shouldn't play with our relatives again. We should stick with friends or strangers.
Why would you feel ashamed when you gathered their money? It means you won and that's awesome. What's wrong with that? I think not playing just because you were shy means that you can lose opportunities of winning. Something like that. That's how you should stick it to the man. Lol
That guy is really amazing. I mean, how often we come across someone who cries for the loser instead of celebrating his own success. Not a common thing. Success is a tool that can be used for bragging and happiness. This is how games are. There is always a winner and a loser. If someone feels guilty after winning, then must say he should avoid playing any type of game.
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February 02, 2018, 04:28:19 AM
But online? I don' think so, you are not playing against someone, there's no element in shyness present in there.
I guess you have not experienced online gambling with group of your friends. If you try once then you will always prefer online gambling only with your friends. While we are gambling with our friends there will be a possibility of shyness even with online gambling. Because gambling alone is something different and gambling in front of our friends is completely different experience which will push two different behavior with the reason of someone is watching which may lead to shyness too.

But, some don't care kind of gamblers, gambling in front of others will not impact them. But honestly I'm not that kind of gambler and I do have different feeling when I do gamble in front of my friends.

True, because we always care about what our friends can say about our performance.  We always make sure that we will do it perfectly.  We do not want to be a laughing stock, do we?  But I guess it is seldom that people will play against their friends online so that case would be  a rare one.  Mostly, we are not pressured in online casino unless there is some issue regarding our account and we have a huge balance on that account.  Else I believe everything is normal except when we have to talk to the support staff about something we do not know.
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February 02, 2018, 04:18:01 AM
Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

Actually, there was one instance in the beginning that I was embarrassed because I didn't know that I need to put additional bet on the table. All the players are waiting for me to put the bet, but since I didn't know the rules then somewhat has pointed it to me and I became the joke on the table. lol. It was a blackjack or something.

But online? I don' think so, you are not playing against someone, there's no element in shyness present in there.


Hahaha this is most awkward moment for someone when you are a newbie and some experienced people are sitting on table right beside you. There are eyes looking at you and you are being confused with their looks. And especially if you are losing once and twice and thrice people start yelling at you with different jokes and points that you get confused totally. There is no option but to leave.
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February 02, 2018, 03:05:52 AM
A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.

What crzy said is true. As a newbie there is a certain shyness you feel and sometimes you don't know where this is coming from. I get intimidated when someone's watching me while I play which is why sometimes I try to find a machine or a table where there are less people passing through. Somehow I get intimidated and feel judged while making my own decisions in the game which would make me uncomfortable. I also get shy when I bump into someone I know and ask me to play with them. I guess I feel this way because I am in the younger bracket compared to them. Somehow you'll just get used to the vibe and be on with it. If you can't conquer the shyness, maybe online casinos would be the right place but I really think that it gives a different feel compared to the real thing.
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February 02, 2018, 02:52:09 AM
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Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy?

Yes, actually it occur to me. When i was playing with my relative i was winning and almost all of their money was into me. Suddenly i became shy taking all their money at the end of the game i gave back all their losses. They are still my relative so i wouldnt care if i gave all my winnings, if were to play with my friends or some strangers i wouldnt do it.



I feel you, I only felt ashamed every time I gathered all their money when I won the game. Maybe because they are related to us and its kinda awkward to get their money. Lesson learned, we shouldn't play with our relatives again. We should stick with friends or strangers.
why played with relatives?if they are a gambler maybe theres nothing to be ashamed of,since if you lose they will take your money too,thats why its called gambling because its a matter of win or loss of bets..and better do that next time.never play with them instead play with other people that not in ralation with you
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February 02, 2018, 01:26:56 AM
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I don't really feel shy when I am gambling to be honest I am really proud,
I don't know but when I was at high school I used to be a gambler and I am really proud to be one ,
Because I feel like I have enough money to bet and also when I win I feel like I have a lot of money.
As long as your money is not a borrowed money or didn't came from your parent's then nothing to be shamed off, I remember being shy when I need to walk home since I lose in betting in online games that I used my allowance in it. And now usually those who are shy in these activity are those that in debt and sometimes they are also those too conceited to admit it.
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February 02, 2018, 01:16:15 AM
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I think, this applies mainly to new players. With time, you will develop the confidence. A small tip if you are starting with Bitcoin gambling. Seeing the current prices, it makes sense to first learn with demo accounts and then proceed with real money games. All the best.
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