Desperation is the key 🔑.
If you are a guy and have been in a good space for years with your woman this type of pm is pretty much no threat.
But if you have had a breakup and are lonely you may say maybe I could get lucky.
So is this person sends out 1000 of these and gets a few replies it is worth doing.
Please note since I phrased this from my viewpoint it is not a reflection on any other style of sex life that you have.
But if you are in a good space you laugh at these pms.
And if you sex life is not working you may try it.
I posted here as I wondered how many got this one. From her or anyone else.