- How long does the $3k annual pay raise go for?
- Does your lady like what she's doing now?
- Will it be relatively easy for her to find a new job for comparable pay within the next few months?
These questions would filter into the decision if I was making it. If she doesn't love the job and she can get a new one with comparable pay within a few months, I say order take the $20k. But we really need to know more facts to help you better.
Good luck!
Thanks!
Ok to answer your Qs:
- The $3k pay rise is forever in the new job.
- The GF likes what shes doing right now yes, its a 1 to 1 care and supporting role with people trying to get them at best health. In new job all that would change and 1 on 1s be done over the phone. More people would be dealt with this way. The job might not be as rewarding this way. However doing this from home is easy vs travelling and preparation to deal with people.
- Taking the $20k and finding a completely new job - would be easyish to find in a few months sure, but unlikely to get same exact pay unless new job was more complex and harder. Lets assume any other random job would probably be $3k less vs private company job offer.
Other factors:
Another thing to consider is i run a home business and she helps.
She can help me better if she works from home.
If she works from home we are flexible to live anywhere.
She might be able to take the $20k and quit completely and we both work on my home business forever. < this is not a safe play though, its possible though. If she quits all work completely and works with me she misses out on little social interactions she likes at current real life jobs - however i guess thats replaceable.
Fuck, still 50/50 we have 3 weeks to decide. I guess its win win situation though.