You're an anarchist? Well, you should imagine how a world without government would be. You can use developing countries with a corrupt government that doesn't look out for them as an example, and you will see how those countries are messed up. And as an anarchist you don't participate in votes or anything in politics but you will still obey the laws that are set by those who rule your country, so how does that even make any sense?
everyone behaves like anarchists most of the time
we all hang out with friends, meet new people in social situations, or go to businessplaces to trade with other people
laws
mostly don't drive behavior in those situations (they're only the safety net for when a small minority of people start to act like complete dicks). The vast majority of behavior involves people pretty much making up their own rules for how they're going to treat each other, and they do it because they know that cooperating and working together makes everyone better off. It's just peer-to-peer government, you're all figuring out the way you want to work together, because it makes everyone happy.
and for those situations where someone does act like a dick, it's easy: cut them out, stop dealing with or talking to them. It works 99% of the time, they either change their mind, or they never come back. 1% of the time they become even more of a dick, and when you think about it, legal action is not strictly necessary to handle that tiny proportion of problem people, most people can still deal with issues like that without outside help (it's actually better for everyone, especially yourself, if you do that).
the biggest dicks around these days are the people we give all the power to; government workers and corporate executives & managers. Instead of protecting everyone (their supposed job), they protect themselves and their friends.
It's not democracy anymore, it's just the old-school feudal system all over again; they're like the lords, and we're the peasants. I'm not cooperating with that bullshit, and neither are millions of people around the world these days, check out the news headlines for the proof