So if we stop paying taxes who is going to repair the roads, put out fires, check the safety of food?.... well, you get it. Or is that the sort of tyranny we want to avoid?
Brace yourself - the "invisible hand" is about to be deployed saying that mysteriously all those things will get done by private markets. And nothing you can say will ever convince them that the magic of private markets is won't appear as soon as we fire the road repair teams, the firemen and the food standards inspectors.
Actually, it's simpler than all that. If you want it, you buy it, or you find a lot of people who also want it and you pool your money with them.
Who grows the food you eat? Who makes the clothes and the cars and the computers? Who built your house/apartment building? Those hands are not invisible. But they are private and don't generally force you to pay for things you don't want. And when they try to force you to pay for things you don't want, you cry foul. Don't you?
There's an even simpler way to view it. You have resources that you earned. If you don't take responsibility for deploying them to the betterment of your life (whether by extinguishing fires, building roads, performing safety checks on your food, or building/buying/renting a place to stay), then who will? If you insist that someone else must do these things for you and take your money to do them, then go find a seller of such services, but stop insisting that everyone else use the same seller you chose.
These are the reasons that the US constitution has an apportionment requirement for direct taxes. That people don't understand that, and don't puzzle over the tax laws to figure out why it looks like such a restriction no longer applies, is a tragedy. If they did that research, they would learn that the appearance is deceiving. The income tax is an excise on activities that are easily avoided, but people don't know that, so they end up paying anyway. These payments end up covering the cost of the destructive wars our government blindly wages in order to profit the fascist corporations run by their friends - wars on plants (drug war), on countries that want to sell oil for something other than US dollars (Iran/Iraq/Lybia/...), on its own citizens in a gambit to justify increased tyranny (9/11), on the minds of young people (public education), and the list goes on and on.