I think it's interesting that you've omitted any links to the discussion.
Let me help out:
You opened an issue asking Bitcoin Core to "hardfork" modify the rules of the Bitcoin Blockchain to prohibit transactions that pay over some arbitrary limit in fees.
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/issues/7638Doing so might even effectively confiscate coins created by people who locked them up in precomputed nlocktime transactions. (Though this is unlikely, I hope it makes it more clear what a substantial change that would be!)
Paveljanik, a lower activity contributor, pointed out that Bitcoin Core already has a "-maxtxfee=" configuration option, and if that wasn't enough-- and you were insisting on the consensus rule change it should be taken to the mailing list. You indicated you would.
Wladimir responded pointing out the absurd fee protection in core, that users may have sensible reasons to override it and 'pay' high fees in transactions so precluding it in consensus would be unwise. He agreed that the issue was the incorrect place to advocate for such a change. The issue was closed.
You posted to the bitcoin-dev list:
http://lists.linuxfoundation.org/pipermail/bitcoin-dev/2016-March/012509.htmlFive different people responded:
"I think there is no need to do a hardfork for this. Rather it should be implemented as a safety-mechanism in the client.", (Henning Kopp)
"Bitcoin Core already implements this safety limit with the "absurd fee" limit of 10000 * the minimum relay fee", (Peter Todd)
"And it's the responsibility of the operators to make the wallet user friendly. Apart from that, there are legit use cases where one would want to "pay" a large transaction fee:", (Marco Falke)
"There's an absurd fee (non-consensus) check already. Maybe that check can be improved, but probably the wallet layer is more appropriate for this.", (Jorge Timón)
"It would be a shame to prohibit someone from rewarding whoever mines their transaction" (Dave Scotese)
You responded to the forth one with (entire message):
"A consensus rule however would protect users from a bug in the wallet protection. Just like the checksum in a payment address does."
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https://lists.ozlabs.org/pipermail/bitcoin-dev-moderation/2016-March/000082.html)
This is almost a word for word repetition from your initial email: "Adding protections may help give confidence and there is precedence to doing things to prevent typo blunders - a public address has a four byte checksum to reduce the odds of a typo."; and it's clear that the people you were responding to were aware of that argument. Nothing here is hidden-- the moderation rejects for that list are all public.
I'm sorry you don't feel that your opinions are adequately heard here; but the community cannot spend unbounded time on any particular person's pet issue-- each post to the developer mailing list ends up consuming many man hours to man days of time across all the readers; it's counterproductive to continue a looping discussion. It wasn't my call to not forward on your message (I'm not a moderator there), and I hope whomever did wrote an explanation to you-- but I think it was probably the correct call.
Ultimately there are thousands of ways poorly written software can cause losses for users-- they can leak private keys, use insecure nonces, munging scriptpubkey data, etc. Additional consensus rules make the system less flexible and more costly to maintain. Cutting down the flexibility of Bitcoin with limits that could only help to protect people against a very narrow class of software bugs, is probably not a great idea right now-- at least not without a unique, compelling, well considered argument and _concrete_ proposal. There are too many other more important things going on.
But just because one community isn't giving you a free pulpit to argue your point isn't any reason that you couldn't work on it elsewhere; you just don't have the right to demand that other people spend their time on it. I'm not sure what experience you have with Open Source projects; but no large one survives without methods and process to avoid an unbounded time loss from every wild idea and wish that comes along.