To quit gambling is to quit yourself - page 10.

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Quote from: semobo on June 22, 2018, 12:29:03 PM

Quote from: changcloy on June 22, 2018, 11:17:24 AM

Base on my experience ot is really hard to quit gambling specially when you are already used to it, before my parents will get mad at me becauase I forgot my responaibility as a mom also they sees me almost broke because of being addicted in gambling. One day I realize to quit gambling and I really want to do it so by the help of my love ones and determination to change I now stop or quit in gambling .

You still can be a responsible family member while doing gambling it is all about having limits managing our daily life.But most of the people will fall entirely into gambling which results addiction so if you can't limit it then better stop it.

Yes, when they are gambling they won't bother about their family and their money. Completely insane about these i dont know how can they simply bother for gambling not for family. We have to be very careful when dealing with gambling by setting some limits for gambling.

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Quote from: emberbekas on June 18, 2018, 02:49:08 PM

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Quote from: bratko99 on May 22, 2018, 04:15:57 PM

I see what are you trying to say, but that doesn't really apply to all.
You don't need to quit yourself. Maybe you are playing just for fun but still addicted to it?
That you just change with a small "change".

It's really easy to type that it's just a small change and anyone can easily get rid of addiction but the reality is you keep on gambling regardless of fun or for profit and slowly you start becoming financially unstable and after a while you lose it all

Even though someone play for fun and with small amount of money but small thing can change everything. Mood can not be stable from time to time. So, no matter how much money a person spend on gambling, the chance to get addicted is there.

You got it right, that the chance to get addicted is always there especially if we still got money in our pocket. Our emotions of excitement and feel of revenge due to losing streak will be the factor to fall into a bad position. This is why it is hard to quit in gambling due to it is very addictive and also enjoyable.

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Quote from: semobo on June 22, 2018, 12:29:03 PM

Quote from: changcloy on June 22, 2018, 11:17:24 AM

Base on my experience ot is really hard to quit gambling specially when you are already used to it, before my parents will get mad at me becauase I forgot my responaibility as a mom also they sees me almost broke because of being addicted in gambling. One day I realize to quit gambling and I really want to do it so by the help of my love ones and determination to change I now stop or quit in gambling .

You still can be a responsible family member while doing gambling it is all about having limits managing our daily life.But most of the people will fall entirely into gambling which results addiction so if you can't limit it then better stop it.

I would say if you can't control yourself then it's better not to gamble at all because failures to control our emotions makes us impulsive gamblers; a big stepping stone into addiction in the long run. Many were led by the feel of " i am going to win next time and recover" and they never got back so it's better to not start what you can't stop.

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Quote from: changcloy on June 22, 2018, 11:17:24 AM

Base on my experience ot is really hard to quit gambling specially when you are already used to it, before my parents will get mad at me becauase I forgot my responaibility as a mom also they sees me almost broke because of being addicted in gambling. One day I realize to quit gambling and I really want to do it so by the help of my love ones and determination to change I now stop or quit in gambling .

You still can be a responsible family member while doing gambling it is all about having limits managing our daily life.But most of the people will fall entirely into gambling which results addiction so if you can't limit it then better stop it.

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Base on my experience it is really hard to quit gambling specially when you are already used to it, before my parents will get mad at me becauase I forgot my responsibility as a mom also they sees me almost got broke because of being addicted in gambling. One day I realize to quit gambling and I really want to do it so by the help of my love ones and determination to change I now stop or quit in gambling .

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Quote from: JL421 on June 18, 2018, 12:57:09 PM

Quote from: bratko99 on May 22, 2018, 04:15:57 PM

I see what are you trying to say, but that doesn't really apply to all.
You don't need to quit yourself. Maybe you are playing just for fun but still addicted to it?
That you just change with a small "change".

It's really easy to type that it's just a small change and anyone can easily get rid of addiction but the reality is you keep on gambling regardless of fun or for profit and slowly you start becoming financially unstable and after a while you lose it all

Even though someone play for fun and with small amount of money but small thing can change everything. Mood can not be stable from time to time. So, no matter how much money a person spend on gambling, the chance to get addicted is there.

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Quote from: bratko99 on May 22, 2018, 04:15:57 PM

I see what are you trying to say, but that doesn't really apply to all.
You don't need to quit yourself. Maybe you are playing just for fun but still addicted to it?
That you just change with a small "change".

It's really easy to type that it's just a small change and anyone can easily get rid of addiction but the reality is you keep on gambling regardless of fun or for profit and slowly you start becoming financially unstable and after a while you lose it all

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at least, I agree with the title that we need to control yourself to quit gambling and if you think you cannot quit then maybe you need help from other people and I think it will easy for you to quit. actually, if we can control yourself in the gambling, we can quit in anytime but you need to have a strong will to do that.

The best way is to completely quit going to the places or establishment that you used to gamble you can’t still go to those places and claim that you are able to control yourself you wouldn’t be quitting gambling if you were able to control yourself.

It is not that easy, quitting gambling would take some time and step by step process. You couldn't just do that in an instant, at first you will have a hard time on resisting the urge to gamble, but once you have already did, you'll get used to it and find yourself free from the gambling world. Quitting might be hard, but continuing playing gambling would be more hard.

it's really hard to quit from gambling and needs a time so we can be able to quit. I agree with meliodas said that it's not instant and we need to do step by step process but maybe there will any people that could do it by instant and they should be thankful for this because they can quit from gambling with instant. just keep in mind that we can quit from gambling and I am sure that there are people that will help us if we really want to quit from gambling and they will give their support to us.

I know it’s very hard and time taking for the gambler to quit gambling and especially for those gamblers who have done gambling almost in all of their life because at that time, it is like oxygen to them and if they wouldn’t inhale it, they would be soon dead. Everything is to be done step by step because sequences lead you to perfectness and if shortcut will be applied, it is harmful for the gambler.

But majority of times, such gamblers just easily quit that gambling thing. Reason is, they have spent their whole life in gambling and losing again and again. They understood the monopoly of this game and then it becomes not much difficult for them to leave. However, the young ones who are somehow new to gambling, they are so difficult for such case. They are little hard to leave this game.

It takes a sense of satisfaction at certain points so that the gambler can get out of gambling as soon as he wins or loses. Creating lower targets and top targets may be able to control the way we bet. This is necessary because, in my opinion, the gambler is never satisfied with what he has earned, and the curiosity, continues to haunt that makes quitting gambling will be so hard to achieve.

Limiting can’t just work out here in gambling. The thing is when someone gets involved in this game, he never comes out to be a wealthy and healthy person. Reason is, this has just a net of attractive deals and offers that this easy money becomes a goal for those people. And then the disastrous life just starts for them. So better is to make yourself fly from such harmful game.

The best thing not to start gambling so there will be no need for quitting. Once you become addicted of gambling then it is hard to quit permanently because it is like drugs addiction and as we know that drugs cannot be easily stopped, so gambling is also addiction and quitting is not in gambler control. If you gamble just for fun then quitting is no problem.

That is so true. When you start to form that habit - whether it is a gambling or not, it would be very difficult to get away with it because you are always getting used to it already and it seems that it is already a second nature to you. Yes, try not to gamble so you won't get hooked and be addicted - this is especially true to people who seems easily get hooked and addicted to things that interest them.

I am highly impressed with this thread statement that to quit gambling is to quit yourself. That is reality. I have never ever been to gambling but I have seen so huge responses of people who once have been gamblers and they are still making their lives hell in it. They don’t learn anyone else because they become so strong addict of this gambling who don’t care about others.

When you are addicted to gambling or to any forms of addiction, you tend to go beyond the norms of life and sometimes you will going to neglect any of the most peers you have because you will be going to focus on the gambling - that is really not good!

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