I feel like they should be tolerated but should not be aided or appeased in any form on a national level (of course, if you personal want to use your resources to help them out, I'm not going to object.) If you wanna LARP as another gender, then fine, have your fun, just understand you make yourself an outcast by the very nature of your being. But once I am threatened with jail time for failing to call you by your preferred pronoun, that's when I get angry. Once I am encouraged to shame others or feel shame myself for failing to have a sexual desire for these people, that's when I get upset. When I am disallowed from even criticizing their decision without being labeled a bigot or a *-phobe, that's what gets me. Once businesses are expected to have a minimal amount of these people to ensure "diversity", that's just way too far.
It's beyond tolerance now in the west, it's over representation in all aspects of life (what percentage of the population are these people again, <1%?) and outright supremacy in many cases, where these people have even more rights than anyone else--why? What is the purpose? Is it a form of punishment on all others? Is it a gift to them? We were doing just fine with tolerating them, but those who fight for social justice never seem to be satisfied, they must create the injustices to then fight. Just stop meddling!
Anyway, as far as being a transgender goes, considering just how much natural stigma there is against those who pretend to be a gender they are not, there really must be some unquenchable internal desire to act on one's impulses to become a transgender. At the same time, I have to wonder how strong that desire really is nowadays, considering the natural stigma is being artificially lifted via the concentration of leftos in the media who attempt to normalize what is obviously not normal. I've heard of (horror) stories about men who have whacked off their willies and have to insert a dildo into the gaping hole their hoo-haw used to be to ensure the wound doesn't close up (as wounds are wont to do), who then regret it and cannot return to a state of normalcy any longer--they were miserable before and they're miserable now, even more so in fact, if the suicide rates among transgenders is correspondent to reality. From that point forward your whole life revolves around being a transgender--no, not being a fireman, or a father, no, it's now about being a transgender, it's the most pertinent part of your character, and it consumes your entire life as you will never be just a man or just a woman with a variety of other qualities but as some sort of revolting freak of nature, the conceptual stench of which overpowers any other quality you may have.
As far as my advice goes--you may be happier being a transvestite rather than a transgender, since a transvestite can easily stop LARPing as the other gender whenever they want to. Transgenders are just playing with fire, with the end goal explicitly being getting burned. So you were born with a sausage, you got other holes, you don't have to make a fake hole!
Look at this perfectly happy transvestiteAnd poof, back to normal!