You could even use a nonce as password: your first wallet uses "1", the next one uses "2" and so on. It depends on your use case: If you're trying to memorize the seed phrase, it's easier if you have just one. But if you're afraid your seed gets compromised (by malware), different seeds reduce your risk.
You should absolutely use more than one seed if you're afraid of compromisation and only one if you just one to memorize it,
which is the worse way to retain a seed phrase IMO. I just said that because OP wants two seeds.
Although he hasn't explained to us why that, so I'll recommend him to just change the derivation path to something like:
m/x'/0'/0'/0/y for wallet 1 and
m/x'/1'/0'/0/y for wallet 2.
Combining Tor with a VPN is usually a bad idea. If you do it incorrectly then you can make your privacy much worse and completely negate the benefits of Tor. Tor on its own is usually a better option.
Why that? Is it better if you use Tor over VPN or VPN over Tor? I guess that if you've bought the VPN through Tor and you've never leaked your privacy, it can only be used to enhance it.
If I set up a watch-only stack #1 wallet and spendable stack #2 wallet in Blue Wallet - then Blue Wallet would know my IP address was connecting to both wallets? I would need to use a mobile VPN every time to block my IP address if I wanted a mobile 2 wallet setup in something like Blue Wallet?
Using a VPN is your best option on an iOS.
Can they tell information like my phone number or email address which is stored somewhere in iOS?
The wallet application? No, your closed-source operating system should warn you that Blue wallet wants to have access to your phone number and other stuff. But, it won't, because it doesn't require such information.