I wonder why the question. Are you a whale or something?
Since Binance is the top exchange, I guess having a VIP membership there must also be the best. I don't know what benefits and perks VIP members in other exchanges receive but for sure Binance must be offering something competitive. In terms of fees though, this might help you:
There's one - https://support.kraken.com/hc/en-us/articles/360001391906-Introducing-the-Kraken-Dark-Pool
You have to be verified at the highest level to get it.
Other exchanges may not have specific programs but if you're a very high volume trader you'll get the lowest fees.
I know that Binance has one.
If you can still remember the KYC information leak scandal that Binance recently got into? One of the actions that they did after that was to make it up with the victims by reaching out to each one of them, offering them a lifetime VIP membership to the exchange.
If the issue is about fees, almost every exchange has a VIP-like application. For example, the first thing that comes to mind is Coinbase Pro or Coinbase Prime.