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I thought that worked with everything?
I finally received my btc.
I don't know why the miners weren't including the transactions with the size of 502 bytes even with a larger fee. Total wait time till 1st confirmation was ~4 hrs 15min.
Whew, now I can hodl
I am getting the sense that one of the problems with your transactions (the ones that you are complaining about) is that you are requesting from some institution that fucks around with it, and probably they are sending many transactions at once and trying to skimp on the fee, or some other shenanigans...
You are not referring to some normal situation, like some blockchain wallet transaction or something more straight forward... When you get the delayed confirmations, you are referring to aberration situations, that is not really a reflection of bitcoin but instead a reflection of less than par methodologies used by the sending institution. I recall that I had a similar delay problems whenever I was awaiting payments from one of the earlier signature campaigns that I was partaking in (not my current campaign)... but anyhow, they would send 100 micropayments for only a small fee, and it took like a day to arrive.. .. If they had increased the fee, just a little bit, then we would have received our payments much quicker... like less than an hour.
but I still say, so fucking what, it is a lot better than traditional banking.