I don't agree with you, but I'm meriting your post because you are interested in a constructive discussion
How about we take the example of poor people blowing all their money on alcohol rather than spending it responsibly? Alcoholism is a severe problem in certain very poor communities. For example, Inuit in Canada, the Native Americans/First Nations in the US, the original settlers of Australia, Maoris in New Zealand... all of these are indigenous peoples in lands colonised by Europeans. Presumably you would never suggest that they are weak/stupid/lazy, you would never ascribe those characteristics as being due to race, and instead agree that the alcohol dependency is a consequence of the situation in which they find themselves? In which case, surely, the bad financial decisions are a consequence of being poor, rather than poverty being a consequence of bad decisions?
Right. I would not say it was their fault if they find themselves in the middle of a helpless situation beyond their control. The social environment people live in shapes their behavior. Some people find themselves growing up to these addictions so it isn't constructive to blame them for a problem they can't control It's like blaming a compulsive gambler for losing all his money from his bad habit, he won't receive that nicely.
I do agree with you that some people are lazy, reckless, and take no responsibility for their actions or their situations... but I don't think we can pretend that our societies are egalitarian, with equal rights and opportunities for all, and that the people at the bottom find themselves there because of their own bad decisions. Imagine if Donald Trump had been born into a penniless family - surely he wouldn't then have managed to become president?
We can't, and that is painfully obvious to most people who read the news every day, where stories about layoffs, wage scandals and politicians blocking budget spending on less developed communities make the pages regularly. Pretty much all countries are non-egalitarian and are going to stay like that as long as, one condition at least, there are low effort, low paying jobs around. And this takes us back to the problem described in the OP. Jobs like assembling circuit boards for Foxconn, frying fast food for some megafranchise like McDonalds and stuffing up toys for Walmart can all be automated, and there are machines, and here I mean things like mechanical arms, conveyor belts and the like, that can at least perform a rudimentary set of chores. In other places like car assembly lines, most of the process is done by machines thankfully with minimal human effort, but the other stuff I mentioned above is not automated at all. And that's a really big problem because assembly liners make just
$17.20/hour, barely above the $15/hour minimum, the average fast food worker gets paid $8/hour, and a quick google search reveals Foxconn workers get paid an outrageous $2.5/hour.
I'd say, depending on where they live, these salaries determine the living conditions they can afford. In the US you can barely live off of $8/month but you might get a way with it in higher inflation countries, but even $2.5/hour is brutal for those places, it's almost slave labor in my opinion. It's likely
not their fault that they ended up with these bad paying jobs that could've been automated because they must've had no other choice.
And most of this could be avoided if large international corporations with a manufacturing arm allotted a bigger budget towards R&D, to developing machines that can automate all this work. At the end to make ends meet those low payed workers would have to be laid off which is painful for them but if they get a modest severance package they won't feel the pain, and will be able to look for better paying jobs. Unfortunately I don't think any company is interested in this idea, not even assigning bigger budgets since it get subtracted from the balance sheet, especially the severance packages although they'll be able to afford it for thousands of workers if the amount is like one year's pay, the workers themselves resist being laid off even from these jobs because they don't know where else to find work.
TL;DR all low paying jobs should be automated to make economies better, it's 2020 FTW.