If you elected someone to "steal" from you you're voluntarily willing to give up the money. That's not theft. Just like asking someone to "rape" you and willingly going along with it isn't actually rape. Both actions are consensual. If, on the other hand I elected someone else, and told them to steal from you to use the money for my own personal use, THEN it's theft.
Who did you vote for then? And would they really abolish taxes? I doubt it. Infrastructure would crumble. And abstaining from the vote is saying that you would rather let other people decide for you, in which case you deserve whichever leader you get.
Complaining about something is morally ambiguous. It's just speech. There's no right or wrong. As for benefiting from things paid for by stolen money, it's morally right, because you did actually pay for those things, whether you wanted to or not. Being forced to pay for those things against your will is morally questionable.
Well, taxation is morally ambiguous as well, as we can see as by the presence of two sides. Being forced to pay is immoral in my opinion, but I feel as though there is no way that you haven't taken advantage of at least one utility paid for by taxes.
Deal! I invest enough in my IRA to retire without social security, I don't have kids, so don't need schools, and can use private ones if I do need them, I'm fine with sticking to private roads and roll roads, and my water and electricity are provided by companies, not government. In turn, are you ok with not taxing me? That's all a lot of us have been asking for: we won't use your services, you won't tax our income and property.
Where I live, the electricity and water companies are both state-owned. The water where I live is too toxic to drink so it has to be treated by a state-owned plant. I may be paying "bills", but they're still payments to the government whether they're called taxes or bills. Maybe I just live in a better place to pay/not pay taxes, but it's very hard to not take advantage of public utilities. And yes, I would never support you being taxed so long as you never set foot on a public road (where do you live where all the roads are "private" yet you can use them freely?). Also, private schools are much more expensive than public, so would you really pay boatloads of money just to spite the people trying to tax you?
Who pays for your electricity? Internet? Phone service? Do you get them for "free" after paying taxes? If not, why can't all the other things you use be provided by a private entity? The only difference will be that instead of having a single large tax bill going to one organization, you'll have a couple of smaller bills going to many organizations, paying only for services you need and use (plus whatever you want to donate to charity or needy causes)
I guess I could have several smaller bills, but then they would each be more expensive. If every road was privately owned, I would have to pay a toll every time I passed a house as opposed to paying one sum and getting to use any road in the United States as much as I want. If water was privately owned by an independent company, they could charge through the roof. There's no way that the water purification plant near me is cheap. I fail to see how the bills would be smaller, since they would be paying for the same thing but with less people paying.
Maybe it's just my location, but paying taxes is much cheaper than paying each individual private company. I respect that you don't want to pay taxes, but I find it hard to believe that you would opt out of all of the public utilities. If you aren't getting use from them, then you are making a poor decision because it's not hard to get your money's worth in tax dollars.