i do pretty much all of it myself and its not that difficult.
wow, that's telling... i'm glad you're not my father, and I hope you'll never be in another life. You just don't seem to "get it".
plus the kinds of people i live near are closed minded, bigoted, irrational, religious/statist types. i highly doubt they would be a good influence on a developing mind.
ok, just a little hint: a child doesn't care if a villager is a statist or prays to the spaghetti monster. Children draw their inspiration from more subtle things. What they need is richness and diversity in their environment.
i would agree the child doesn't care, i dont think muslam children "mind" the fact that they have been indoctrinated into being muslams, that doenst mean its a good thing.
Children are influenced in all ways conceivable by all people they spend time with. more subtle things and less subtle things. a child that spends large amounts of time around Muslims will grow up to be Muslim, a child that spends time around people who speak chinese will grow up to speak chinese. its not freaking rocket science, children respond to their environment. for the exact same reasons that a child who spends lots of time around chinese people will grow up to speak chinese, a child that spends lots of time around irrational people will grow up to be irrational.
what some people in this thread appear to be suggesting, is that the best qualification for determining who a child should spend time, is not merit, but geographical proximity. excuse me for calling bullshit on that one.
*edit* you know i had to come back because this is just so stupid. suppose i was willing to let other people raise my child, what makes you people think that the people in my geographical vicinity give 1/2 a shit about raising my child for me. What makes you think that any of them even want to do that? what incentive do any of them have to want to do that? this whole "it takes a viliage" thing is such complete and utter bullshit. when its 3 in the morning and your baby has been crying all night, you think you can just go knock on your neighbors door? would you wake up at 3 in the morning to watch your neighbors baby? because thats what it takes to raise a child, if the child doesnt feel like sleeping YOU ARNT SLEEPING. who else other than a parent has any interest in dealing with that shit?
*edit**edit* if any of you clowns want to put your money where your mouth is. if you really believe in what you are saying than maybe one of you would like to volunteer to change some of my child's shit filled diapers for me. ill be waiting. i know i know, thats not realisitic you probably live on the other side of the planet, but i bet you have a neighbor who would welcome the reprieve. post a video up on youtube and link it here of you chaining your neighbors babies shit filled diaper and ill eat my own words. dont forget to hold up a news paper with today's date, and especially dont forget to wash your hands.