Damn, sounds like she was a porn star
I read a story in the news of a guy who went abroad to work for a year and left his wife to take care of their kids. He earned a lot and decided that he'll send her the money and she'll start with building the house so no time is wasted. She was sending him back tpictures of the land she bought and the house being built so he continued to send the money. When he finally came back, found out she already filed divorce papers and was screwing another guy while he was gone. The house and land were fake and she just spent the it all with her lover.
Definitely not a porn star. The worst part is that the sex actually sucked... Whenever it actually DID happen.
Horrible story...
Glad to hear that! I know that sometimes we have to face adversity first and stumble a bunch before we find our greatest story. Always glad to hear of times when in the end it's great. It just sucks for me because I wanted to believe that I had already found it. Oh well.
I'm still fairly raw with my issue (she's still yet to move all of her stuff out, but I gave her an ultimatum of two more weeks to get all her stuff out) so it's focus on me time! I've cut her and my former "best friend" out of my life and doing things that make me happy. I hope it ends up well for me too in the end!
Well, the story is far from over and plenty can happen, but the past 2 years or so have been bliss. No fighting, just mini arguments and quick compromises.
Focusing on you is definitely the best thing to do right now. If you can afford out, get out there and do shit you've never done. Do them alone. Go on an adventure that scares you. Self-discovery is most rewarding when we're alone and kicking ass.