Topic: What's more important in your life? - page 4. (Read 675 times)

Living without any disaster is most happiest moments happening time in your life and I think no one will be in this situation for long time that's why we long for your happiness again and again when the disaster for the sorrow things happening in our life otherwise everyone need to face all the situation in different times

If you are not satisfied with your job, then you should think that what is thing you wanna do?
First thing, you don't like your this type of job, or you don't want to do job.
May be you don't like your job, because you have less salary, that's why you wanna change.
Or may be you have no skills to do job, you wanna start your business and you have no more money, that's why you are frustrated.
But i suggest you, don't blame your life, be satisfied whatever you have.
Actually, happiness is our choice, we could live in a less salary if our heart and mind decide it.

If you can be able to find a job near your family even the salary is little bit lower then you should accept that job offer because we all are earning money to live happily so making money by sacrificing that happiness it too bad.

But some people like to do be alone and I am that kind of person because I feel to alone even with the familty so its better to be alone and live the life i the way we want to be.

If you are a single and just working to help your parents and siblings then maybe I can say that you can choose happiness from other form of works.but if you have own family then that’s a different thing because for me our children’s and wife is our happiness and since we are working to make them happy we have no need to find other job unless you are not paying well

I think we have all find ourselves in circumstances that didn't make us happy. Feeling trapped by a job, and feeling alone is a real thing and and its good to be aware of how unhappy a situations make us.

That's the beginning of being able to change it into something else.

What I have found is that when I am most unhappy, is when I am stressed to the point of exhaustion. 

Resting is vital to our ability to relax. The more we can relax, the more solutions can occur to us. And just feeling relaxed makes us more fulfilled so we get a little happier.

How to relax? Some of us go immediately to what ever addictions we have. I won't list them..pick your poison.. But  addictions don't really help us relax at all.

Resting, getting enough sleep is important but if you're depressed and isolated, get out and meet people in the real world.  Find a group of ones interest. 

But I know sometimes that's not all that easy either to get that motivated.

If that seem to hard for me to do then I take a walk at the beach. Or just sit  there looking at the ocean. This is much better. It becomes a mediation and gives me space for new thoughts and ideas to come in.

Any useful repetitive task, can produce a meditative state,  like cleaning, or playing a musical instrument or singing, knitting, drawing, painting, dancing, even writing. But if you write all day long maybe do something else.

The beach or nature allows me to empty my mind. Or to go to a good movie.

The bottom line is when you're alone you do have to learn to become your own best friend.  And indeed if even if you're living with a pack of people,  family or otherwise, we still have to learn how to be a good friend to ourselves,  and not forget to ask..
"What makes me happy?
And what can I do right now to make me happy?"

What's important to me is my own definition of happiness. Why? Because it reveals your true self making your every happiness genuine. I think you are not defining your own happiness here. And also, somebody may find having a job with fixed salary as their own definition of happiness. How can you say its your definition of "happiness" when you say you are not happy? You're missing some point here, or am I. I think you're just confused. Mistaking something as your happiness where in fact, it doesn't really make you happy. You need to reevaluate some things, make time for yourself to think. Or maybe try to do the things you love or you can try new things. That may help you find which really makes you happy.

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?