This question conveys a lot of opinions. Whilst some people would blame it on the state of the economy or the bad leadership or some might go as far as saying the political juggernauts at the top are responsible for the state of the nation, I would personally like to see this situation is emanating in a chronic manner as a result of the overconsumption of other people’s lives. This , I’d like to say is the root reason because if everyone can learn to overlook how classy and prosperous others are and instead focus on what you have and strife to achieve your own goals instead of trying to live or mimic someone’s lifestyle, I believe things are practically going to get better .:: for me, happiness is a choice and how you chose to achieve it depends on what happiness truly means to you
I agree with your assertions on these issues, especially regarding deriving happiness from oneself rather than necessarily from the achievements of others around. If we observe the current state of life, especially for Generation Z, it seems like everyone is in a sprint race, aiming to outpace one another in a seemingly competitive world. Unfortunately, this has led many young people astray, taking directions that land them in trouble, perhaps by accumulating too much debt in pursuit of a lifestyle that isn’t theirs or trying to keep up with peers rather than focusing on personal growth. Many young people solely focus on outward appearances or what others think of them.
But, as the saying goes, there is no smoke without fire. In the case of Nigeria, it’s evident that many are facing economic crises. Whether we acknowledge it or not, the truth is that the economy is struggling, and people are trying to adjust their livelihoods. Some find it difficult to adapt as the economy declines. Consequently, we see a society where people struggle to maintain a particular standard of living, yet find it challenging due to being accustomed to the benefits of a better economy in the past. The same applies to the youth.
My advice to anyone out there is to take a step back and assess reality. They must readjust themselves to face the truth. The truth of the matter is, nobody is concerned about your circumstances and everyone is burdened by the current economic situation. Whether you used to drive a car or now use public transport, whether you had a thriving business or are just starting one, it’s essential to adapt to the present reality. Find ways to make yourself happy and contribute positively.
If you previously accommodated many guests at home, consider reducing it. If you were generous with money, reassess your giving in light of the current situation. If you used to spend extravagantly on unnecessary things, reconsider those expenses. It’s crucial to live within your means and prioritize essential expenses. Thereby exploring opportunities to increase your income.
It’s time to adjust to the current economic conditions and make necessary changes for sustainable living. Remember, adapting is key to surviving and thriving in challenging times.