Gene is why it seems illogical that even in people with happy relationships, the guy (usually) still cheats.
Our history is full of bloody wars that mainly participated by men, hence men usually die at young age killing each other, that's why they must pass their genes ASAP to multiple hosts (women). This biological trait doesn't translate well in modern society which is mainly peaceful (with a few exceptions) hence the word is "cheating."
Topic: Why do people cheat in relationships?? - page 2. (Read 489 times)
People cheat because of a lot of reasons:
- Lack of adequate or no attention.
- Not being on the same sex wavelength.
- Lack of trust
- Love needs fund (money) to thrive
- Repetitive act/ way of doing things (no new surprise in the relationship)
- Not good enough in performance (yes, exactly what you think)
- etc
- Lack of adequate or no attention.
- Not being on the same sex wavelength.
- Lack of trust
- Love needs fund (money) to thrive
- Repetitive act/ way of doing things (no new surprise in the relationship)
- Not good enough in performance (yes, exactly what you think)
- etc
Repetition, boredom, lack of sex. Wife isn’t confident with her body so won’t put out. There are so many reasons why couples might go through dry spells. There is help out there, relationship clinics etc, you can sort these things out yourself though. I’m sure you don’t need me to explain how.
Take your wife out to dinner, buy her something nice, give her compliments.
Take your wife out to dinner, buy her something nice, give her compliments.
Both my wives were cheaters and I fired them...
Neither put any effort in before I knew and then demanded I put effort in afterwards.
No go, you had your chance. Kick rocks.
Why? They were damaged before I inherited them. It had little to do with me and how they felt about themselves,
self worth the need for constant new acceptance and approval of others. Even if I put on my best captain save-a-ho cape I couldn't save them.
My second wife still sniffs around after 11 years. So I called her bluff, I told you take time off your work and fly, get a rental car and see me on your dime. Didn't happen, two months later she is Mexico...... Predictable.
The lessen I learned is start with high quality material, you can't forge it.
Neither put any effort in before I knew and then demanded I put effort in afterwards.
No go, you had your chance. Kick rocks.
Why? They were damaged before I inherited them. It had little to do with me and how they felt about themselves,
self worth the need for constant new acceptance and approval of others. Even if I put on my best captain save-a-ho cape I couldn't save them.
My second wife still sniffs around after 11 years. So I called her bluff, I told you take time off your work and fly, get a rental car and see me on your dime. Didn't happen, two months later she is Mexico...... Predictable.
The lessen I learned is start with high quality material, you can't forge it.
For me, all the talk about polygamy of the species sounds like an excuse. People have moved far away from animals in social terms. A person is restrained by his standards of morality, decency, and the ability to be faithful to his partner. And all this is a personal choice. And personal responsibility. Everyone must adhere to the contract concluded between him and the partner (and this may already include polygamy, or insist on monogamy). Yes, no one can protect us from cheating, except for a reasonable choice of partner.
i thing because they are already bored with their partner, so they seek another
because humans making mistakes..so that's could happens to "unexpected" persons.
Cheating Is just normal attitude in both humans that just want I see only why some are sexual satisfaction why some people are money especially woman they loved money so cheating get them in the ways of that in men, why men's are what woman have in their body attract them like boobs and buttocks 😂
In my opinion there are many contributing factors that would make you want to cheat. Loss of connection being the biggest followed by anger, neglect, and lack of sexual desire.
A cheater may have bad self-esteem and think that would get it improved for cheating on their loved one.
A cheater may have bad self-esteem and think that would get it improved for cheating on their loved one.
I think it's because sometimes people date, but not really care about each other, they are not afraid to lose their partenrs
True! I was dating a lot of girls, and I kind of liked them, but i always cheated on them. But then I met another girl, who became very special for me, and i have no will to cheat already for 5 years. So I would say it's a matter of the love rate
I think it's because sometimes people date, but not really care about each other, they are not afraid to lose their partenrs
This is why it's important to avoid boy friend and girl thing for serious relationship that leads to marriage. When you are married, you can now have the right to be angry at infidels. If you are angry while unmarried it makes you a hypocrite because you are actually cheating on your future spouse and violating the rules against sexual affairs outside marriage.
What then do you advise someone who is ready for marriage but has decided to date first to do? 
The truth is that there is nothing binding both the boy and the girl as long as they are not married. This is why it's important to avoid boy friend and girl thing for serious relationship that leads to marriage. When you are married, you can now have the right to be angry at infidels. If you are angry while unmarried it makes you a hypocrite because you are actually cheating on your future spouse and violating the rules against sexual affairs outside marriage.
It's quite alarming a rate at which people cheat in relationships. A friend of mine was complaining how her boyfriend was playing with her close friend even while he was with her. When confronted, he denied at first but later admitted that he did such because she wasn't giving him enough attention. Is a relationship supposed to be flexible to the point where either participant is free to "look outside" while in because they are not married? What do you guys think?
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