traditionally, fathers are the ones who are distant because in traditional gender roles women are the ones who stay at home and take care of the children while the men go out and work
men are typically associated with being void of emotions as they consider it as a weakness
of course this traditional mindset is changing right before our eyes
I know a lot of people who are closer to their father than their counterpart
The innate characteristics of a woman which includes being nurturing may take a big part on this phenomenon
however i believe that if men were to put the effort to truly understand their children and bond with them then they could have children who will call them when they miss home
Topic: Why do people give preferential treatment to mothers more than fathers - page 2. (Read 265 times)
November 23, 2023, 09:33:49 AM
November 23, 2023, 06:20:08 AM
Mother is always ingaged with children from the child hood that is the basic reason that children love her mother than his father actually the if we see both are caring as we see the mother care her children in home as we see the father care his children outside means they do a job for his children and wife also.so we should love mother and father both because both are sacrificed therselves for children.
November 23, 2023, 05:39:00 AM
Because Mother is the one who has soft treat to us than our father who is usually the Money
maker and they wanted their effort to be paid off by our attitude and following their rules.
But mothers can break those rules for us because they care more of our feeling as they
are also the one that carries us to their body , I'm not saying that fathers care nothing for us but its just the mother has more to add.
and also Mothers are the one who will first be hurting from our mistakes in Life and that
is according to my own experiences.
maker and they wanted their effort to be paid off by our attitude and following their rules.
But mothers can break those rules for us because they care more of our feeling as they
are also the one that carries us to their body , I'm not saying that fathers care nothing for us but its just the mother has more to add.
and also Mothers are the one who will first be hurting from our mistakes in Life and that
is according to my own experiences.
November 23, 2023, 05:33:11 AM
I think there is a natural phenomenon regarding this kind of behavior and treatments we give to our Mother than the way we do to our Father. Starting from the period of nine months where the mother is to carry the child in her stomach there is this connection between them that even tells her when the child is hungry right inside her, it is just natural and inbuilt connection.
After our mother gives birth, they are the ones to bath us, feed us, cloth us and we tend to spend much time with her where else our Father is at work and when he comes back he has little or no time to play with the child, that is where the Bridge takes place between the Father and child. The child will always see the Father as being strict because he spends more of his time at work and when around our Mother we become too jovial.
At a point for me personally, I can be able to cross my hands around the shoulder of my Mother and make funny jokes to crack her up but never can I do that to my Father despite my level of maturity I still accord to him same respect like I was still a kid, it is natural.
After our mother gives birth, they are the ones to bath us, feed us, cloth us and we tend to spend much time with her where else our Father is at work and when he comes back he has little or no time to play with the child, that is where the Bridge takes place between the Father and child. The child will always see the Father as being strict because he spends more of his time at work and when around our Mother we become too jovial.
At a point for me personally, I can be able to cross my hands around the shoulder of my Mother and make funny jokes to crack her up but never can I do that to my Father despite my level of maturity I still accord to him same respect like I was still a kid, it is natural.
November 23, 2023, 03:32:24 AM
Mothers are softer & more caring. Traditionally the Fatter would be out all day at work whilst the Mother would he the one feeding & caring for the child, bringing them up etc. I don’t think there’s any science to it, your Mother has maternal instincts & I guess they are the one you turn to more than your Father.
November 22, 2023, 09:26:42 PM
while growing up as a child ,i noticed that i was so closed to my mother more than my father ,and i usually find it very easier to confide in her more than my father, i can easily run to her for financial help without fear even when i wanted to get money from my father i often go through her to seek financial help from my dad but then i felt that it was an infant mentality even when i see my friends do same in their homes .
more so, while in the university i noticed also that 75% of those that use to call their parents, only their mothers and even when they want to pay their school fees they also complain to their mothers instead of their fathers. however i have tried to make some researches about all these preferential treatments given to mothers than fathers but still i am not convinced about my findings and that is why i decided to bring in the question here in the forum because i know that it will be well explained here and hopefully i will get all the answers that i want here .Therefore my question here is WHY DO PEOPLE GIVE PREFERENTIAL TREATMWNT TO MOTHERS THAN FATHERS ?
more so, while in the university i noticed also that 75% of those that use to call their parents, only their mothers and even when they want to pay their school fees they also complain to their mothers instead of their fathers. however i have tried to make some researches about all these preferential treatments given to mothers than fathers but still i am not convinced about my findings and that is why i decided to bring in the question here in the forum because i know that it will be well explained here and hopefully i will get all the answers that i want here .Therefore my question here is WHY DO PEOPLE GIVE PREFERENTIAL TREATMWNT TO MOTHERS THAN FATHERS ?
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