This post is not intended to criticize gamblers, i am just curious what drives a gambler to really gamble even when the odds are against him or even reach the point where he'd rather lose everything he has than to stop doing his gambling addiction. I said the following because i have seen friends and some relatives on my mother's side literally lose everything they have like family, wealth etc. and only a few managed to stand up again. And some of that few still gamble to this day. And an uncle was found dead from a gunshot wound, whoever did it was unknown. But rumors say that it is one of all the guys he owed large money and never payed. While a friend(not close, just a neighbor) died from suicide because his wife left him along with his 14y.o daughter and 3y.o son. Now, I ask this because i dont get it. I just don't. I mean is it even worth it? If you ask me, i don't know. That is why i am asking. And the reason why i did it here is because we all know i can't ask a gambler with this kind of questions face to face because doing that would mean mean that I wanna start a fight. I mean that might how a gambler reacts to this kind of question. Please share your thoughts on this.
It's just sad that there are many gambling addicts who have destroyed their lives because they cannot stop their addiction. Though there are others who have strong will power to stop but then others just cannot get over it just what OP stated. As what I can observe, some people just want to forget their problems for a while and they see gambling as a way to let their mind off it and enjoy the game and it's much more exciting because there is a chance they will win and maybe their problem is money related so it's one way to solve their problem.
As for my point of view, I gamble because I wanted to have more money instantly but I know my limit and stop when I need to. I did experience it before when I have losing streaks and become so emotional and I just cannot shake off the feeling and wanted to get back my losses so I would be in debt to someone just to gamble and since I am emotional, most likely the outcome would be additional losses. It had gotten worse and I did reflect and realize my mistake so I decided to just look for other ways to earn. I gamble from time to time but only for fun now and maybe a little profit if I am lucky.